We broke up 5 months ago. We had a bad break up. I lied to her a couple of times. I have been seeing a therapist and she has made me a better person. Before we broke up, we had a date set up for marriage and we were talking kids. We have talk twice since then but it was a quick hello. I would like to know what I can do to win her heart back. She told me she really loved me after we broke up and I want to see if there is still something there. I miss her & do love her. I don't know if she misses me and that is something I would like to know too.
2006-10-15 11:04:49 · 12 answers · asked by Red R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get her the same way you got her before..Unless she says your too predictable, now it means get a pony or something...Show a good impression of how she changed y ou....don't be like other men outthere that says that i have change...show that you have changed...and i can garuntee that is going to work....damn i should be wit hDr. Phil or something..lol
2006-10-15 11:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by Fritz J 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-05-07 15:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 02:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/9Ppvf
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
2016-07-18 23:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I remember your previous posts. I think you're still not getting it. This woman is bad news. I realize you have a rich history with her and that you still love her. At the moment, you'll feel like the only thing you want and that matters is to be with her. It's completely normal to feel that way. You have to be logical and look beyond your feelings at a situation like this. This woman has cheated on you, lied to you, hurt you, etc. Even if she does forget this guy and come back to you, sooner or later she's bound to do it again. She's bad news, and you need to stay away from her. Somewhere out there is a woman you could fall in love with who would love you back and never, ever hurt you like that. Right now you can't see yourself ever falling in love with anybody else, but that's because you're still hung up on your ex. You need to get over your ex so you can move on. That means no living with her. No having sex with her. No being her friend. No waiting for her to come running back into your arms. Just saying good-bye and letting her out of your life so you can move on and let go of this nightmare once and for all. I'm not saying it will be easy and won't hurt. It will hurt for a while, but the sooner you break off all contact, the sooner the pain will subside. As long as you maintain contact with her, you are just going to stay stuck reliving this pain over and over again. You'll have temporary joy and respite from the pain in the brief moments you get to be with her, but you'll suffer for it much worse later on. If you want a guarantee that your heart will keep breaking and you'll keep suffering forever, then just keep her in your life as you've been doing. By moving on, you can reach a point where all this pain will be behind you. By moving on, you can reach a point where you can enjoy life without her. By moving on, you can reach a point where you'll be ready to find a woman whose love will bring just joy and not pain to your life.
2016-04-13 00:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 27⤊ 0⤋
I put the plan in motion and it didn't even take a week for things to turn around. She called me late last night and we talked for hours. She said she wants to be together with me again. I'm just thrilled right now. We're going out tonight and I feel strongly that we will get back together. Read more here:
2015-02-09 06:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you guys are going to miss either. but better to move on specially if it's been 5 months already. I've notice that some men have difficulties letting go of ex-girlfriends/fiances - but believe me once a women makes up her mind to break off with her boyfriend, fiance, or husband we mean it.
move on, start dating again, keep yourself busy and learn from this relationship - next time you lie make sure you don't get caught! good luck.
2006-10-15 11:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-22 15:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by monet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be very romantic for you to send her a note and ask her if you can start over totally fresh so she can get to know who you are now. Then call her and introduce yourself and ask her out for coffee. Don't talk about love, or the past, just talk to her like a new friend. What you are doing is starting freah. Don't push any sort of romance. Just slowly start to date her. Give her time to know who you are now. Tell her that you had an experience in the past that changed you for the better and you have had counseling to make sure you have changed. Don't expect her to talk about what happened in the past. Keep yourself in the present. Ask her to a movie. Send her a rose. Totally respect her as a friend and then as time goes on the two of you will feel when it is right to kiss again etc.
Keep it simple and let her get to know the new better version of you.
If she rejects this you need to be quiet and gracious about it. If you get frustrated and tell her that you want her....she will get irritated and be sure she doesn't want her.
If she sees a more matrue you and if it is meant to be...she will give you another chance. Girls hate begging. She needs to see the man in you.
I wish you well.
2006-10-15 11:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You will not be able to get your ex back if you don't get to talk to them. Even though it's highly recommended that you don't initiate contact right after the break up, you can turn things around to your advantage. And that is by making them talk to you again.
How do you do it? There are three things you can do to make your ex want to talk to you: create mystery, pique their curiosity, and tap their interests.
Create mystery - there is nothing more effective than creating a mysterious aura about you to get your ex back. Remember that mystery will add to your appeal. If your ex sees that there is something different about you, they will immediately want to find out what caused it. And since you are not talking to them, they will go out of their way to reach out to you.
Pique their curiosity - curiosity is one compelling human trait. If something or someone sparks curiosity in you, you are more likely to find out what it is. You need to make your ex curious to get him or her to want to talk to you. Make your ex curious with something new in your life; it maybe a new gadget, car, or even job. Just make sure that it is something that interests them. There's no point in making them curious about something they don't care about.
Tap their interests - as you can see, all three points are interrelated. You know what they like so this gives you the power to make them come to you. Do something to make them know that you have front row tickets to the NBA or a concert. You can also show off your latest iPod, mobile phone, or game console. Once they find out you have something that interests them, they will come and talk to you.
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2016-04-06 17:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 27⤊ 0⤋
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2015-02-18 20:43:41 · answer #11 · answered by Cara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋