im in 7th grade and jake is in 8th. hes my ex, and i never meant to like him again, but our friendship has grew and were always dropping hints that we like each other still. ive decided that i should tell my friend haley to tell him something. jake and haley fight a lot, but he tells her everything anyways. their like friends but they basically hate each other, you know? well jake has told haley that he still likes me and i think we should just...you know...work things out, maybe go out again. but i cant just go up to him and ask him out, because if he says no, 1) ill be embarrased. 2) our friendship may be ruined forever. thats why i want haley to tell jake that i still like him and i wanna go out with him again, just have her tell him like its a big secret of mine that she shouldnt be telling him so he doesnt think i totally set him up or something. so should i? or should i just leave it to him?
btw, dont tell me im too young...my mom even thinks i should go out with jake again!!
2006-10-15 11:03:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. i dont think u are too young i was dating at that age. 2 it sounds like u guys should try to work things out if u both like each other then y not try to work it out, if u want him to ask u out get you friend to tell him that he should ask u out. Hope this helps. Good Luck!
2006-10-15 11:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah It's not a good idea dear. Don't use someone just to make him jealous. Aren't you afraid of Karma? And besides i don't think you'll make him jealous since he broke up with and not enjoying your company. Why don't you ask him? Ask him why you're not a "girlfriend material", for sure there's a reason, so that you're able to change it for your own good. One more thing, I think the issue is not about the "girlfriend material" thing but with what kind of guy he is. I'm pretty sure that he is a player or not taking relationship seriously, bcoz if he's a good guy, then he won't broke up with that easily instead he'll give you some advice on how to be a "girlfriend material". Well, just a piece of advice, find a better man. Yah i know you still like him but open your eyes widely, surely he's flirting with some other girls at this moment. Best of luck!
2016-05-22 04:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you should use the spell check as your English is lacking and maybe instead worrying about boys you should be worrying about your education!! (just a motherly thought)
SO here is my response to the question,
As long as you trust your friend to do it the way you want it done I say there is nothing wrong with letting him know you are interested in him through her.
Do you remember why you broke up in the first place? Are those issues still going to be a problem?
Good luck and though you are too young to be really serious or having a physical relationship with a guy there is no reason you should not be finding out what it is you want from a guy in a relationship and what you won't put up with!
2006-10-15 11:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Queen Fromage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should ask your friend to tell/ask him, I think you should tell him yourself, and if you worried about embarrassment, then you can either sms or e-mail him, and about your point no 2), well, this is a decision you have to make, you can always just stay friends, but then you'll always get stressed like you are now, like is a feeling, and since you like him again, go out and give it a second chance, you'd never know what might come out of it, like what my friend always say, life is short, so live it with no regrets, so give it a shot, it wouldn't hurt would it?
2006-10-15 11:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Antz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you have your freind ask Jake if he still likes you. Therefore, you will know. And you can be more confident, knowing he still likes you, to ask him out again. You know your freind can just ask Jake as if, you hadn't asked him to ask. Your friend can just act like its just something he's curious about and that is it. And if he doesn't like you, we'll then at least you'll know. Does that help?
2006-10-15 11:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by Green Tea Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you just being Jake"s friend, for a while, to see how things go. Don"t have anyone give him any messages from you, just say, "When are we going out for pizza." etc. see what he says. Take it slow, and enjoy having fun!
2006-10-15 11:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good lord. If you want to prove you're not too young, then walk up to the guy and ask him out. All this having friends talk to people for you is childish and immature.
2006-10-15 11:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Levae it to him but if he takes to long then take the risk and asking out yourself... theres no harm in taking a risk sometimes it pays off plus if he's saying these things to yourclose firend then he must like you and is not sure how you feel about him...
2006-10-15 11:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just tell him you want to go out with him again and maybe he'll say yes and you guys can have a good love life together.
2006-10-15 11:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by Christian c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so not to young..... okay if you really like him you will have your friend do just that I think it will work.. And work things out definitely
2006-10-15 11:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sabra Lindahl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋