hes started going out with friends texts people all the time tells me he has someone else i need to no if he is cheating or if im paronoid he never use to go out or is it i am jealouse ive got no friends please help
2006-10-15 10:49:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry to it if the guy is telling you he has some one ..then he has or he doesn't care about your feelings anymore..either way it's time to split .unless you have no self respect
2006-10-15 11:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you have no friends and have no life outside of your marriage, then your husband has an advantage over you. Take a page from his book and start going out with friends and doing some of the same things that you are aware of that he is doing. Build your confidence level and your husband will begin paying more attention to you and less of the life he's having without you.
2006-10-15 11:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a change in behaviour then yes it is suspicious but that said could be another explaination apart from a woman. Sit him down and communicate your fears.....watch the body language it will tell you more than the words he speaks. If for example he over explains he could be guilty ............study him .
Why have you no friends....is that absolutely true.?
Could be he is making a social life and if that is the case would have no objection to you coming along sometime......surely.....
I can feel the pain in the words you have written and the fear....but you and only you can solve the question you ask.
Be strong and face him, not with agression, but you haveto for your own sake I think.
2006-10-15 11:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez Val, what a *****!
You say he is telling you he has someone else? Sounds pretty conclusive to me = (
Even is he hasn't got someone else, he is jerking you around, try talking to him about it, but don't put up with his crap. Every woman is worth more than that, so be strong and if it's time to call it a day, then do that! No way should you be so unhappy. If he isn't willing to work at it then why should you? I hope you can work it out and be happy! Lots of love x x
2006-10-15 10:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by Fairy Nuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say in your question, that he says he IS seeing someone else! Or was that a miss print?
Any time you see BIG changes in a relationship, that aren't involving you, and your in the relationship, there is something to concern yourself with.
If hubby started doing all these things, sweety, your not just being jealous!! I'd have to say you need to sit him down and talk. Check the textes. It sounds to me he's cheating and thinks he's got you in the dark.
2006-10-15 11:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him at the last minute if you can go out with him. That you would like to meet his friends. If he says no. Then something is obviously going on. You can also ask him to let you see his phone. If he asks for what just answer " because as a couple I have the right to look at your phone just as you have the right to look at mine". If he says ok but hold on and starts looking thru his phone, something is up. If he says no, something is up. He should never hesitate about anything. You should be able to answer his phone without him getting upset.
2006-10-15 11:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by hott stuff!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I did this I was cheating. You know he's cheating. He told you he was.
Believe! Do not deceive yourself. Again, he told you he was cheating! He's cheating for a reason. He's not happy.....
Either change, or find someone who will be happy with you....
Start finding friends now. Oh, and there's no point playing games on him, that just sinks you lower.......
2006-10-15 10:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by petrovg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looked like u said that he said he had someone esle.If that is so then how much more proof do u need.If you made a typo then I say u need to go with him the next time he goes out.If he says no then u know why.Girlfriend,,,,,,Plus this Val is a creep so don't pay any attention to his answer.
2006-10-15 10:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are in denial; he has told you himself the answer to you question. Perhaps you should take a good look around and ask yourself is this all worth the pain that his actions are creating? Be your own friend and get to liking the woman in the mirror.
2006-10-15 11:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by fina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound to me like you have much of a marriage. He says he has someone else so he probably has, and you have no friends! You need to work on your self esteem. Start doing things you like and things for you!
2006-10-15 21:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont want this hanging on ur mind, y b in a married relationship wher ur wondering is he cheating on me and he doesnt spend time with u? i would have a serious talk with him and tell him ur not goin to be second best ur his wife and hes throwing away ur marriag, i dont know if u have any kids involved but instead of worrying and wondering just talk to him or his mates and find out the truth,,,,i know u dont know me but im here for you..vicks12@hotmail.co.uk
2006-10-15 11:00:09 · answer #11 · answered by vicky_js23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋