I guess he's kind of my friend now. We sometimes make out, half naked. No sex. We both just got out of long-term relationships. Anyway, we both get lots of action from the opposite sex in terms of them wanting to date us. However, while I'm a virgin at 20, he's been with 7 girls at 23. I don't know what he wants from me. We talk about deep, intellectual stuff, and we don't have sex. He doesn't really pressure me, although one time I went back to his place so he thought that I wanted to have sex with him and he bought condoms. I then rejected him flat out calling him a male slut. He told me I didn't know what I was talkign about. I told him he was cheapening himself. After we party together, he comes back to my apartment to sleep. No cuddling. We talk about other people we date.
We both reject a lot of people, not to sound pompous, but it's true. He said that he's rejected a "a ton of a**" when I asked him if he wanted sex from me.
I asked him "Why do you talk to me if you know you
2006-10-15 11:05:56 · 6 answers · asked by Harvard Student 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
will never get sex as I have issues about sex in general, which is why I'm a virgin? He basicallly asked me "Why did you come back to my apartment if you weren't going to have sex with me or do anything?:
I said "i don't know." He says, exactly. I don't know either. He told me he couldn't give me a logical explanation.
2006-10-15 11:06:44 · update #1
He basically calls me up once a week and I meet his friends and party with him. We usually leave early, and he wants to come back to my apartment to sleep. We just make out, no sex. Don't cuddle. We date others, but I do seriously enjoy talking to him. I don't know what to do. Just go with the flow?
2006-10-15 11:07:39 · update #2
I do enjoy his conversations. Maybe we're idealistic college students, but we're both searching for our paths right now, and what we want to do. We feel very unsatisfied with the way our lives are going in terms of our careers, love life, etc.
2006-10-15 11:09:18 · update #3
Ok, so I may be a tease, but he doesn't force me to have sex. I trust him in that way. He can get tons of girls...trust me, he's pretty good looking.
I don't know why I tease him. I do like him. I especially like talking to him and conversing with him about issues of life.
I'm just saying..what does he want from me then? Oh and once he called me up to ask me about my emotions and if I ever felt that I wanted to talk to him about him, to call him...
2006-10-15 11:13:23 · update #4
lol and then mid-makeout we stopped and started talking..he says "Please, just kiss me like you actually mean it."
I laugh at him and say "what is this? Out of a romance novel?"
2006-10-15 11:14:08 · update #5
I am not that experieced so I´m not the most indicated person to answer your question but honostly dont loose you virginity just to keep him...go with the flow and see if you can get a more serious relationship where sex can be put apart.
And then when YOU are ready...you can make love for the first time...
2006-10-15 11:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by sandra_freitas6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heavy petting says i wanna have sex. you're a tease, be careful some guy isn't going to go for your crap.
2006-10-15 11:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just for your information, no one wants to read that much.
2006-10-15 11:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by J1ZZ IN MY PANTS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TMI!!!! i don't know what u r asking...u 2 both like eachother... so what is the problem....???? gl with life
2006-10-15 11:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
making out half naked .. . you are a tease....
2006-10-15 11:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
errhh no comments
2006-10-15 11:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by TheGuyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋