I love him, and I want him to get better, but his penis is only about 4 1/2 inches. How can I work around that?
2006-10-15 10:51:42 · 21 answers · asked by Shal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will have to work around his penis with your mouth!
I assure you it will grow larger!!!
2006-10-22 17:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Cool Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you love him. Sounds like you made a mistake, are addicted to sex, and think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.
If you really love him, get a marriage counselor. Otherwise, just leave him, but don't tell him it's the shortness of his tool. He may take it too hard. Why don't you just kill him, and feed him to the tree grinding machine? Or take him out to sea, and push him in? Make sure you've got a nice life insurance policy on him. This would be not only more merciful to him, but it would help set you up for a while, if not life.
2006-10-15 10:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a deal-breaker, then yes. Everyone has a list of essential qualities in a partner, oftentimes subconciously, until that specific issue come up. If you need someone bigger, you need someone bigger. It's fine if that's what you need, because if that's what it takes to satisfy you sexually you will never be happy otherwise.
However, it is probably important to know that your boyfriend is almost exactly the statistical average.
Side note: if you do decide to leave him, go ahead and make up a fake reason. It's bad enough to be dumped without being told it's because of something like that.
2006-10-15 10:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by tomstrong83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think sex is a very important part of a relationship. If you're not happy in that department, but you really love him, the two of you need to work on this. Talk frankly about your needs; there's ways around this - other means of sexual stimulation, toys, etc. Maybe you could buy a sex toy for yourself and introduce it to him; let him "play" with you. Just don't lay there in silence, that will only hurt your relationship.
2006-10-15 10:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by fionamom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help him learn to use his johnson in such a way as to satisfy you.
Unless you've been having sex with Shaq for the past decade, you're probably not so stretched that you can't feel someone at his size.
You need to communicate back and forth and learn what feels best for each other.
2006-10-15 10:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant think of the autor but there is a book out there called how to satisfy a woman and make her beg for more. All men can benifit from this read no matter your size of ability.
2006-10-15 10:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to take the time to work on it to make him longer! You will need the following: 36" of nylon string (2) dumbells one five pounder, one ten pound and then.....
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2006-10-15 11:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by drkhrse099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teach him how to please you. It could be with oral sex, or whatever. Communicate with him. You don't have to kill his ego and say "Hey, you're penis is too small for me". Work around it. You shouldn't base your relationship entirely around sex being the deal breaker. Good luck.
2006-10-15 10:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by yblur 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. There may not be anything you can do about that. Maybe he could be good at other things, like using his mouth and then you're already satisfied when it's his turn.
2006-10-15 10:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what to tell you. For better sex, he can still continue to pleasure you in other ways. And for intercourse, you guys should invest in some sex toys.
2006-10-15 10:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by Yetunde A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋