We all have our own "love languages"...so for you (and give an example if you wish), what means of communicating love do you respond to the best? A kind word (spoken or written)? Cleaning the house? Just hanging out together? Phyisical affection? A gift "just because"?
2006-10-15 11:02:12 · 11 answers · asked by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
all of the above!!!
2006-10-15 11:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a decision---whether giving or receiving. Physical affection is not love----it is SUPPOSED TO BE a gift of warm expression of love.
Just hanging out together, cleaning house, looking at a book together, etc., are all exercises in acceptance and sharing. The "love" you feel for someone, you decide to give them by a kindness, a gesture, a smile, a hug, or just by being in the same room with them being silent together.
Love changes shapes the longer you are with another person. The passionate urgency "symptom" of "lust" or "infatuation" diminishes and burns less firey when comfort, trust, confidence, respect, and admiration press with the skillful fingers of a studied sculptor---forming a new "love", a new creation---but the same two people are not the same two people---they are stronger, more fulfilled in just the touch or a word of the other.
Then, after 20 or 30 years, the sculpture that shows so warmly in the eyes of those who have loved, perservered, trusted, respected, and who have learned how to finish each other's sentences and thoughts, is now grander, more detailed with faint petina in the crevices and wrinkles. but no matter how aged the sculpture gets, how many details are creasing their faces, when they look into each other's eyes, they see the person they used to hang out with, clean the house with, raised the children with, washed the car with, anguished over past-due bills with-----they see love. Love for them is tangible, not just a feeling.
2006-10-15 11:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by thepeskywabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a great question....when I receive love from my husband it can be the smallest thing...to others..but to me it's SUPER..SIZED...if I'm sitting in my recliner after cooking dinner...and I start to doze off...he will go get a quilt and cover me.....I might be out of it at the time but I sense he is doing this.....and I feel my body wilting...going deeper into sleep.....it''s something so wonderful and LOVING...we have been married 47 years..so my list is long..this is just one example.......thanks for asking it makes me count my blessings...
2006-10-15 11:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does "all of the above" sound like a good answer? We talk, are very intimate, buy little things for each other, and are best friends. My man is everything to me.
2006-10-15 11:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You right phyisical affection.
2006-10-15 11:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by lanie1713 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the most romantic girl EVER...so I always try and do my best to be spontaneous or caring and my way or receiving love is getting the same back.
2006-10-15 11:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by sandra_freitas6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two ways- being able to stare at ea other and w/o words communicate...and laughter- both feel to me like a true way to express understanding:)
2006-10-15 11:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by nickname4anne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my love language is touching, giving presents and spending quality time with the people that I love. I also need to hear that I am loved and appreciated.
2006-10-15 11:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is alot of ways PDA,hanging out,love letters stuff like that
2006-10-15 11:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by Sabra Lindahl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a longing stare in a crowded room........everything around you seems to stop/disappear
2006-10-15 11:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by askaway 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you give it and youll get it in return
2006-10-15 11:07:28 · answer #11 · answered by tracystacy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋