i dont know wot to do??

Question

can anyone help? ive recently moved away from the person i loved and i cant stop thinkin of them im always talkin to them and its so so ahrd and i dont know what to do they tell me that they do still care loads about me and im madly in love with them still i wanna mve back and, i moved away coz i was suffering from depression as i lost a close friend last christmas i jus dont no wot to do? please dont say get over her because i cant!!

Answer 1

you need to sort yourself out first and your depression

Answer 2

You moved away because you were depressed over losing a friend but nothing she did or said. Wrong thing to do. She was probably youre best bet on getting thru this instead you for whatever reason chose to leave her alone. If all guys would only stop and think before they acted, the world would be so much better off. If shell take you back, youd better go back to her and tell her how stupid and sorry you really are. Plain and simple. Next time really think about what youre doing before you do it. Good luck

Answer 3

When we lose somebody, it often feels like there is a void. I lost my partner last year and had that experience. However, I have seen that there is no void. He still occupies the mental space that he did when he was alive. I was goign to move towns too as he had become such a huge part of my life here. Glad now I didn't. I realised there were a lot of people I know who I had not let into my life. Now I am surrounded by people when I want them. It is my choice.

I can still celebrate the time we spent together. And smile. In the very early stages, I spent a lot of energy filling the space. I have lots of people now I could contact but soemtimes choose not to, to give myself space and time to be alone and not lonely. Your friend was not physically present all the time, her/his presence was in the mind, where it still is. And the absence is something we experience in our minds too. For me, the best thing has been ackowledging and celebrating having known my partner. I can now celebrate the otehr people I know and ensure that I communciate with them while they are alive. It's the unsaid stuff that causes the pain. I wish you well

Answer 4

Maybe you are still suffering a bit of depression, over losing a close friend, as it was only last Christmas, that is not so long ago, and you will still be trying to deal with your loss, you should give you and you gf some time,as she may be trying to deal with you moving away, and also the depression you were suffering, some people don't understand depression, especially after you have lost a close friend, it all takes time............could you go back and visit them and have a good talk. that may help........good luck and god bless, i am sure all will come right for you.

Answer 5

You never get over losing a loved one you just learn to live with the idea that their gone. You've probably not done yourself any favours by moving away this just isolates you with your depression. You really need friends at this moment in time until you regain your inner strength.
Loyd's Chemists sell a great little book on how to deal with depression (£6.99). Seek other suffers on the net and learn more. Who Knows you could end up with a great fan club. God Bless you and good luck.

Answer 6

First of all you can't move away from problems. Especially when the problems are from within.

Maybe you should move back and learn to deal with what ever it is that is causing your depression because that is internal and no matter where you move to it will always be there.

Depression is real but there is help. Seek out counseling.

Answer 7

You don't say why you moved away....did you have to ??
You also don't say if this other person wants you to move back...
If you each want each other so badly......talk it through and work out a solution. If the other is not so keen then give them a little space.....allow them to miss you don't be clingy if possible. If you are meant to be together then you will be

Answer 8

take a seat and take a deep breath. the 1st element you're able to be able to desire to do is to discover somebody on the factor of you who you believe and to talk to them. I dont understand the guy so I cant somewhat choose his charactor so cant say, take him back or despite...you're able to be able to desire to talk on your baby who's shifting out and ask why, see if this is fastened, then you definately could desire to pay interest on getting your motor vehicle fastened. i for my section, could depart it a pair of days formerly I have been given in touch which incorporate your ex and picture approximately issues. you're able to be able to desire to think of roughly despite if or no longer you spot a destiny with him, and if so, stable! I wouldnt hassle approximately his mom although, enable her form herself out, shes an person, she would be in a position to regulate. you have adequate to tension approximately! So thats the checklist. refer to somebody close, talk getting the automobile fastened, think of demanding approximately what you somewhat want. I havent been in a relationship formerly so cant supply anymore suggestion Im afraid, yet i'm hoping what iv pronounced has helped and that all of it works out. keep in mind, day after today is yet another day! xxx

Answer 9

It is a tough one. I don't know if you are up for it but it might help to see a counsellor. They are trained to listen better than talking to a friend who might not be so helpful. LOL

Answer 10

I think you should go home. you dont know what you have got till its gone, but you obviously know now what you had. take the risk, thats what lifes all about !!!! :O)