i met up with this girl recently and we had so much fun on our first date. the way we met was so unique, almost as if it was meant to be. but on the date she told me that i was the sweetest guy she has ever met, and that i was so different and unique than anybody she knows. I felt the sameway about her. couple days later i call her up and she says shes really confused and is gonna call me back later. she never called, but text me. she says her ex that she was seeing for 2 years wants another chance. she said that she used to love him but he always treated her wrong, and that nobody in her family liked him. it got me so mad how she didnt tell me this in the beginning but i like her so much that i still wanted her as my girl. her sister told me that she really liked me and that i should keep trying. so i wrote her a poem gave it to her, but she never talked to me bout it....she just keeps tellin me that shes confused. now im wondering if i should keep waiting for her or should i move on?
2006-10-15 11:20:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i just got done talkin to her sister and she told me that she loved my poem. and that she wishes she could just move on. Her sister told me to not talk to her for a week, to give her time to think, then ask her out on another date. but i feel so stressed out cause i really had high hopes for her, or us. i mean i even met with her parents. maybe everything was too good to be true. huh?
2006-10-15 11:41:56 · update #1
If she is not going to be happy with her ex(because of the whole family dislikes him and treating her wrong), you should try to talk her into giving you a chance and that there is no point on going out with a guy that will mistreat her, nobody under any circumstances should be mistreated, so try to go out with her and let her know how a guy should treat a girl, but if you really love her you mustn't push her to hard, she might already be stressed, so if you push her too hard you might just scare her away. So just take it slow, and hope that she will come too you in the end.
2006-10-15 11:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by Antz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should keep trying (but not too much) and have dates with other girls meanwhile...
cause, you know. .. when women are in love we get so stupid that even if the guy is a total a.s.s... we just stay in that relationship to try to save something
im sure that´s not gonna last but remember we always give second chances even to the worst man in the world and more if she had a 2 -year- relationship...
so take it easy and dont insist too much cause we dont like that but dont dissapear ok?
good luck
2006-10-15 18:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should "wait" for her but you don't have to make it a point to tell her that you are seeing others either. She has to make her own mind up asnd I think it's better to know now then to find out later when your feeling are stronger for her. If it is right, she will come to you!
2006-10-15 18:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please move on because a gal who is confused about a person who treated her badly before is not sure of what she wants in life.you seem like a nice guy and she should be able to see that you are for real.
2006-10-15 18:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO 4 IT PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
U ONLY LIVE ONCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IF U DON'T WANT TO GO FOR IT TELL HER YOU'LL WAIT FOR HER MAYBE THAT WILL SHOW THAT U WON'T TREAT HER BADLEY. ALSO JUST COME OUT AND SAY IT AND KISS HER AND TELL HER THAT IF SHE WANTS TO BE WITH HER EX THATS OKAY. BESIDES THERE ARE TONS OF GIRLS IN THIS WORLD WHO WOULD PROBALLY LOVE THE WAY U SEEM TO CARE.
2006-10-15 18:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her who shes wants to be with and what ever shes says is up to you if you want to keep seeing her or if you want to dump her.
2006-10-15 18:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Christian c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away!
2006-10-15 18:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bo V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋