I get turned on by girls "doing it" and so i think im a lesbian...am i? if i am, is it wrong to be a lesbian? is it wrong in the Bible? Cause i love God but i dont know if what i am is wrong.
2006-10-15 10:40:45 · 29 answers · asked by Crystal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's with the long list of fake questions. Weirdo. Each of your questions not only contradicts the next, but is oddly trying to sound like a little girl being sexual. You're either a little girl, or a grown sexual devient. Consider using your time more wisely.
2006-10-15 10:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by deedee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that being a Lesbian is wrong. God gave you free will, and that is why people are gay. It says in the Bible that it is an abomination. I don't think that getting turned on by girls "doing it" makes you a lesbian, but I do think that it is wrong for you to watch it. Watching something like that turns into lust and lust is a sin. I would suggest that you talk to the Lord about it. If you feel that this is wrong, and you want to get rid of it, then you have to absolutely hate it in order to get rid of it. So, ask him to put a hatered for it in your heart and then ask him to take it from you, and he will answer you!
2006-10-15 10:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Cassie p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being turned on by girls "doing it" doesn't make you a lesbian. That's just temptation. As far as homosexuality being wrong in the Bible--well, if you actually read the Bible, you would know the answer. God's views on homosexuality and sexual immorality in general are very clearly stated throughout the Bible and require no interpretation.
That being said, I'm sure you have heard of some "Christian" denominations ordaining gay pastors, etc. That's because of another principle that I won't go into on this forum. E-mail me if you are interested.
2006-10-15 10:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, how old are you? You may be going through a phase of development where different things attract you for a short time then you move on.
Second, while I don't think that being a lesbian is "good", I have a few friends who are lesbians and I love them as friends. I would never want them to feel rejected by God for their way of life. They all attend church and are concerned about the same things.
What I try to explain to my friends is that God knows a person's heart. He will judge them by the good and bad things they do in the name of God. If they are good people God will know this and judge them fairly.
2006-10-15 10:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people get turned on by that. Why are you watching it? If you think it's wrong then it probably is wrong for you. The bible says you are not supposed to "lay" (have sex) with someone of the same sex. Are you a Christian? If you truly believe you are a lesbiann, then you need to search in your heart for an answer from God, because if he made you that way, then I don't think you can be "wrong." Just what behaviour you choose to do might be wrong in God's eyes, just as people who have premarital sex is wrong according to what some believe it says in the bible.
2006-10-15 10:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, lesbianism is wrong--ethically, morally, and biblically. In every case where this issue is dealth with explicitly, the Bible takes a position of condemnation and it violates God's word in the Bible.
It is normal to explore your sexuality, but heed the warning--it is wrong to be a lesbian.
2006-10-15 10:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by Stefanie K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be sexual attracted to females to be a lesbian. Not just turned on by two girls having sex. No it is not wrong to be lesbian. Only you can decide if you want to be or not. However it is probably out of your control.
2006-10-15 10:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I am a lesbian and let me just say this: Watching people have sex is arrousing no matter who is involved. The act of sex invokes the mind to think of sex, which in turn arrouses the body. I can watch straight or lesbian sex and get turned on by either. You have to explore yourself and what turns you on in everyday life to find out what side of the fence you are on. Don't just judge by sexual stimulation. If you find yourself attracted to a perfect stranger of the same sex on a regular basis, then you may be a lesbian. And as far as the religious part of it goes, if God created us in His image, then I think we are okay...I mean, we wouldn't be on this Earth if he planned to condemn us to Hell. God puts everyone on this Earth to complete a task...sometimes many tasks...we are accepted into Heaven solely on how well we have served His will, and how much we have done in His eye and His eye only...meaning doing good deeds not for your own glory, but for the glory of God. =) Hope this answer helps...good luck!
2006-10-15 10:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by Erica R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If God does not make errors, then how do we account for murders? conflict? Rapists? If He made everybody suitable and in his very own image, then what do we are saying approximately Adolf Hitler? And that's no longer society's doing the two, if it have been then the place could it have started? If everybody is made suitable, then the place does the corruption initiate. gay inclinations are recorded especially animals' sexuality and that i doubt those animals chosen to be gay. that's purely nature. some everybody is born with blue eyes and a few everybody is born with brown. some everybody is involved in the different intercourse and a few everybody is involved in an identical intercourse. that's purely nature. And...did no longer God create that too?
2016-10-02 08:06:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can become aroused seeing women having sex as well, but that doesn't make me a lesbian or even bisexual...
Being lesbian is no more wrong than being white, than being heterosexual, than being born in Nebraska...these are things we have no control over...homosexual people are born that way...we (people in general) don't choose who we are attracted to, we choose whom to act it out with...but the attraction is the key...a gay man might have sex with a woman and even marry, because he's ashamed or fears being publicly gay, but he's still gay...
If you are romantically attracted to women (not just physically) then you may be a lesbian...are you attracted to men at all? Perhaps you'll enjoy having relationships with either...be who you are...to be less would be dishonest...
2006-10-15 10:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋