I have a borderline personality and I am bipolar. I am currently getting help for this now. I am talking to this guy right now and he knows about my problems. I over-reacted to him staying out late and kicked him out of my house. I said I was sorry and asked for another chance and I asked him to come back and he said he has to think about it and not to rush him. I don't want to rush him but I have the feeling that he thinks that I'm going to hurt him because he made the comment when I tryed to explain why I over-reacted that he knew it going to happen and that we were going to break up. I wasn't seeing him for the person he is I was seeing all the people that had hurt me in the past and I thought he was going to hurt me to. I made a mistake for not realizing that he is not the people from my past he is himself and I lost sight of that. I didn't give him a chance and I do understand if he doesn't want to give me a chance now after what happen. I don't know what to do any ideas?
2006-10-15 10:36:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did explain all this to him. He was out late with his friends. I guess I'm wondering if I should just back off right now?
2006-10-15 10:57:06 · update #1
You say he nows about your problem....then try sending him a copy of this question and see if he responds...If not then move on he was not worth it anyway....to care about someone is to except thier differences (bad and good) all you can be is who you are... good luck ...casey
2006-10-15 10:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Get therapy and medication. Then tell him you are doing so.
If you are already taking these measures, and you still did this, you're not ready to deal with a relationship yet.
2006-10-15 17:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone until your better. Bipoar 101! Just try be nice for now.
2006-10-15 17:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by bigsatdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT DON'T SOUND THAT BAD.WHY WAS HE OUT SO LATE? AND HE NEEDS TIME,PLEASE! THIS IS THE WAY GUYS ACT IF THEY WANT A EASY WAY OUT OR WANT YOU TO BEG AND RUN AFTER THEM.WHATCH HOW HE ACTS.THE NEXT COUPLE DAYS YOU WILL KNOW.
2006-10-15 17:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by DANA LOVES MARK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you wrote in here guys cannot read minds nor can women just tell him how you truly feel if he cant accept then move on!
2006-10-15 17:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by brittney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait until you are further into your treatment before you start a relationship. it sound that you are not ready and neither is he for this.
2006-10-15 17:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋