she is goin to have my baby and her family hate me she have to lie to see me and it kill me. we been close for 2 years and came close to gettin married but it never happend, but we are still tring but it just getting hard everyday i dont see her. and we done get to talk alot anymore
2006-10-15 10:39:58 · 15 answers · asked by weezy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Are you kids?
Maybe you should get your act together (get a job and decent living quarters for your girlfriend and incoming baby) so her parents will feel better about entrusting their daughter and grand-baby to you.
Having a baby is a man's responsibility. So put your childish wants and ways behind you and be a man.
2006-10-15 10:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most country you have parental rights.
It is not without responsibility.
I am not sure what exactly the situation is, but under certain condition you want to be low key and not make waves, you do not want to be in Jail (how old are you and how old she is).
You need to see a lawyer and take legal advise.
Can you support her and the baby and yourself.
Parents of the girl might be doing you a great favour, so tactfully work this one out.
2006-10-15 11:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure how old your girl friend is but if she is of legal age then ahve her leave her family home to be with you,if she is not legal age then send her letters and maby its not the best thing to do by law but you two could elope which means running away together to be together if you cant be with her and time goes on she may be forced to see someone new to take your place of a father figure for the baby
2006-10-15 11:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is my personal view...................
if u & ur gf r close 2 each other and hav decided to get married then just go 4 it. i'm saying this bcoz u never get another chance once apart from each other. make ur relation strong & more close by talking, spending time, discussing, etc...
also plan 4 ur marriage as its the right time 4 marriage. best of luck & god bless both of u.
2006-10-15 23:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u say she is going to have your baby ? why don't you get married right away ? both of u have gone too far to worry about your families now. & right now she needs your presense & support. go to her house & tell her parents & ask them to get u married. still if they don't agree ask her to come with u & get married at once ®ister your marriage .( hope both of your are above 21 years )
2006-10-15 13:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that the parents of your girlfriend know, that the father has to be involved in the baby's life.
2006-10-15 10:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by peterboro_first 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, and if she loves you truly, nothing can stop the two of you. Good luck! Call her, talk to her. Tell her how you feel. Everything happens for a reason.
2006-10-15 10:43:33 · answer #7 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just keep on trying.true love will never fail.u will get her.when u lose her just think about the time u were together
2006-10-15 17:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by true friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is old enough
you bouth should run away together and raise your baby together
life is short you both love each other what
more is there.
Your child needs 2 parents.
if she is old enough.
2006-10-15 10:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by flagnsnarf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please if you are adults talk to parents and tell them she is pregnant.marry her as soon as you can.being a girl i can realize how much she needs you at this time
2006-10-16 07:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by anshul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋