Family & Relationships - 15 October 2006

I met my guy on the personals and I've been seeing him for 6 mos, regularly sleeping with him, acting as boyfriend/girl;friend. Today, right after being with him, I left and went home to pay bills, etc. Having discovered that I was still being charged by Yahoo for a dormant personals subscription, I went into the site to try to find out how to stop the charges (I have a deleted profile, and believed service was stopped). Lo and behold, I discover my favorites are still saved when I check in on the home page, and his lists him as having been active within 24 hours. Having no computer at home, that means he left me and when he went to work
today was on the personals! I am schocked and upset. We were supposed to see each other for dinner on tuesday, and he said he would call me tomorrow (Monday). Help! What do I say/do? I had really really liked the guy, and now I don't know what to think, or how to deal with the situation. Advice please.

2006-10-15 10:05:16 · 14 answers · asked by auntgrace 1 in Singles & Dating

told you to go stay at a homeless shelter with your two kids instead of helping in any way?

2006-10-15 10:04:51 · 2 answers · asked by phyllis_gene_levy 1 in Family

im mexican and my fiance taiwanese, what do they expect from me, like what things should i do or act

2006-10-15 10:04:48 · 2 answers · asked by flo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A man I met three weeks ago has become important in my life more quickly than I ever thought possible. He told me I am "the one" after our first date. At first. I pushed him away. Then, something snapped, and I just fell! He is 41, the widowed father of an 8-year old girl. He is the sweetest man I have ever met, but he is also a man who likes to do manly things. That is, he watches sports all the time and owns a construction company. He is not like the wimps I have dated throughout my life. Now, I am asking questions to him ALL THE TIME - questions about "how does he know" or "is he sure," mainly because I want to make sure I know what I am getting into. I have never been married and have never had children, so this is all new to me! Am I crazy, or is this normal? He acts like it is normal to fall in love after only three weeks. Can someone like him handle someone like me, a skeptic?

2006-10-15 10:04:47 · 8 answers · asked by Sincerely84 1 in Singles & Dating

I’ve been seeing this girl, she is a nice person, worked her own way through college and travelled quite a bit. She is a Scholar at University, and also works part time. She is into Social causes, and makes a lil effort towards that. Recently she has started to dress up, otherwise at home she is totally casual, The office she looks so different. She is hot, and she knows it, guys ask her out all the time, she turns them down ASAP, and tells me abt it, it annoys me cause she is my girl. She socializes a lot, makes friends quick, and loves dancing. I’ve had 6 hour conversations on the phone where both of us went to work next day without sleep, usually gives decent feedback and advice; she is like everyone’s best friend.

She is seriously into work, well almost a workaholic, but knows how to Party. I love it when she dresses up, she does manage to find time for us even if it means missing out on sleep and I love that about her. But the problem is, that I cant seem to figure out if she

2006-10-15 10:04:12 · 7 answers · asked by TheGuy 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this boy who always buggs me his name is william he pulls my hair and pushes me in class why does he do this and he always talks to me how do i tell him to stop pushing me and pulling my hair i told him to stop were in 7th grade and he trys to embarress me !!

2006-10-15 10:02:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Once upon a time, having, or being, a "secret admirer" was harmless and innocent, a cute and romantic thing. Unfortunately, nowadays it seems to be on the verge of total extinction. On the rare occasion when it does turn up, it is often regarded as "creepy" and "stalkerish" by the general populace, especially by women. That's terribly unfortunate.

Do any women still find "Secret Admirer" romantic?

2006-10-15 10:01:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were going together for 7 months and we decided to move in together, but his mom was always saying things to him about the bible now he is confused which led to the breakup. He stills wants to be with me but he just want to get hisself together. I believe, i just don't go to church as often. We still love each other but its real hard for me cause we work together. I don't know what to do. I will to wait for him, but if you really care about someone you wouldn't let anything or anyone come in between yall. Right?

2006-10-15 10:01:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean everytime we try to talk about things to try and fix she says " I dont want to do this right now" or she says " I dont know what I want from you" I mean what the hell I'm trying she begged me to try and when I do she runs away from it and us. What should I do?

2006-10-15 10:00:32 · 5 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

I asked him about the past. If he has sex with women while i was away, our relationship is long distance. I have waited almost a year and likewise him, i was faithful and still faithful because i treasured our relationship and i believe that marriage is sacred. But it really broke my heart when i asked him about it, then he said that he had sex persistently, if im not mistaken, it means continuously for a long time. I dont know if i will trust him again the way i trusted him before i know this. I am so down, and i dont know what to do. I kept on crying and crying. I need some advice. Hope you will help me. Thank you and God bless.

2006-10-15 10:00:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the guy I am friends with, we flirt but we're not together yet.he went to college 2 hours away so we talk online. he's 18 and has no experience with girls, no girlfriend or anything like that. How do I show him I want to kiss him or that I want him to kiss me? I know he wants to kiss me but I think he's real nervous, plus I'm older and he knows I've kissed before so maybe he feels pressure but we really like each other. So what physical signs can I show him I want to kiss like leading up to it. I know we're playful with each other but how do I cross the line to us kissing. I will see him in December for winter break.

2006-10-15 09:59:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys, do all of you take long to go no.2? My husband can stay on the toilet on average 17minutes a pop. I just don't understand how he can waste so much time sitting there. Why can't he just stop, drop and go? Ladies, Are your husbands like this? It really isn't cute anymore and I am really annoyed at this. Is this normal?

2006-10-15 09:59:32 · 31 answers · asked by Melissa G 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He's a lazy- non-employed, non-housekeeping,nonlaundry doing,non-showering,pot smoking , rotten toothed m-=--er f--ck-r!
but he s good in bed and i dont want to be alone?

2006-10-15 09:56:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whe love each other very much. We loved each other before we were together. When I was feeling down the other day he told me "just know that I will always love you". I told him I loved him too. We have been going out for a month and He told me he would never hurt me. We haven't kissed yet. We have talked bout the whole sex thing and decided we have alot to live for, I mean we are only 14! What should the next step be?

2006-10-15 09:56:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his sort off fit his not tht bad n he gets on wid all my friends but da thing is tht i dont really talk to him alot his not sort of my type but he really fancy me his been waitin 4 a chance 4bout 5weeks n he alwayyss tells every 1 how much he really likes me all the time but 1 of the problmes are aaaswell his best m8 really badly fancys me 2 but i dont no if i shooould go out wid the 1 hus fancyed me 4 ages {his names tom}

2006-10-15 09:56:32 · 14 answers · asked by XxKizzxX 1 in Friends

2006-10-15 09:55:37 · 34 answers · asked by Kaitlyn P 2 in Singles & Dating

I was swimming in the pool of my next door neighbor..I got out and i bee stung my butt so my male neighbor ran in the house to get some medicine..I though he would just hand it to me so i could put it on..In stead he put it on me..At first i was kinda weirded out but then I liked it..I am 15 and he is in his 30's...so then i was going into the house to get something to drink and he went in also....I then went to the bathroom where he was putting up the medicine he told me I looked good when I swam so i grabbed him and kissed him..He didn't pull away instead he started rubbing me in odd places...Do you think we could be in love..he is married with 2 kids

2006-10-15 09:55:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if you went to the movies with your boyfriend and he goes to the bathroom and takes a good 10 minutes. You go out to see whats taking him so long and he is talking to a girl who works there.You ask him what's going on and he tells you he is asking her how the movie is. the movie you are about to see in 10 minutes. Would you believe him or not ? what do you think I should do?

2006-10-15 09:54:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-15 09:54:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What are the signs that you are falling for a woman, what do you start doing and saying, And when do you feel its the right time to tell her?

2006-10-15 09:53:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like no guy between the ages of 19-23 have any respect for women!!!

2006-10-15 09:52:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 09:52:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend i asked out a year ago and she said no. since then we have gone to dinners, movies, and once i went to her hous eand she took me on a picnic. so the thing is im confused about the naturte of our relationship. does she like me? she told me no when i asked her out but then she takes me on a picnic? what is going on and what should i do about it?

2006-10-15 09:51:15 · 16 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-15 09:50:57 · 8 answers · asked by crystalbear 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 17 years old and will be 18 in Feb. I am in love with a 26 year old. I know that this is odd and most of you will think it strange. We will have been together for a year on the 28th of October. My mother totally forbids me seeing him but i really really love him. I dont know if i am doing the right thing. I go behind her back and stuff just to see him. I want to be with him and i love him to death. When i graduate from high school mom told me that i can see him again but i just cant wait.

Is it wrong for me to see him?


Please help!!!

THANKS

2006-10-15 09:49:28 · 22 answers · asked by softballprincess1089 1 in Singles & Dating

I am making a cd for my mother and was wondering if anyone knew any good mother daughter songs. Preferably country, but it doesnt have to be. I already have Somebodys Hero and In My Daughter Eyes.

2006-10-15 09:48:55 · 6 answers · asked by KennyK 1 in Family

e-mail me and i will give you some idaes to visit...

2006-10-15 09:48:47 · 6 answers · asked by Bolo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and i have been going out for about a month noq but we go to different highschools in the same town (but the town is pretty big so we dont really live close to each other). anyway i talk to every night over the phone but in the one month we've been goin' out i have seen him only 3 times....we always make plans to hang out but then he will cancel the very last minute or never call or go out with his friends or family instead. i talked to him about it once and he said he was sorry and that he wanted to be with me as much as possible so he would try harder. but this weekend he canceled on me twice - saturday he said he was ganna call and make plans but never did and today he called to say he couldnt hang out becuase he was going somewhere with his cousin. i dont want to whine to him about it again but i keep getting hurt and i feel like im the last on his list of priorities...should i just brake up with him?

2006-10-15 09:47:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I caught my date staring at my butt when we left the restaurant. The look kind of creeped me out, but I figure he was just fantasizing. Tell me guys, when you look at a woman's backside are you only thinking about anal sex?

2006-10-15 09:47:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have just broken with most wonderfull women ive ever known after three years im 34 was this my last chance of happyness

2006-10-15 09:46:48 · 30 answers · asked by dantrfcpickering 1 in Singles & Dating