Whe love each other very much. We loved each other before we were together. When I was feeling down the other day he told me "just know that I will always love you". I told him I loved him too. We have been going out for a month and He told me he would never hurt me. We haven't kissed yet. We have talked bout the whole sex thing and decided we have alot to live for, I mean we are only 14! What should the next step be?
2006-10-15 09:56:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep on dating,thats the only step you need to take for being 14.
2006-10-15 09:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next step should be to just date each other and have fun. Wait to have sex, you are both young and you have the rest of your lives. I lost my virginity at fourteen and got pregnant by the first guy I had sex with. I loved him too, but it wasn't worth it. If he really loves you and you really love him, then you will think long and carefully about the decisions you are making. If he tries to pressure you and say dumb stuff like "if you really love me then you will do it" then kick him to the curb. If he really respects you and is really your best friend, then he will know that you both should wait until you are at least a couple of years older. Fourteen is too young, it was for me and if I had the chance to go back I would have waited. . .
2006-10-15 17:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by In God's Image 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not having sex until your at least 18 because in the long run u will regeret it and there are too amny consequences for both of you to risk having sex at such a young age. try taking the next level to going out on dates a a kiss but that all.
2006-10-15 17:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by beautifulpersona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U guys should kiss. But don't like plan on kissing, just let it happen when the moods right, like let it come natural. My 1st kiss happened when we were watching a movie toghether at my gf's house (we were watching Titanic) and I had my arm around her and it just kinda happend. U shouldn't hav sex though, that's going too far, but just go w/ the flow. Good Luck.
2006-10-15 17:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!
Did I sound like that to my parents, OMG!!! I mustve looked, no wonder they always reacted that way to me !!!!
Sweetie, thats great that you think you have found a PERMANENT LOVE, but reality check..........people CHANGE gaurenteed!!! I was supposed to go down one path with MY high scholl sweetie and we were going great happy for years then a few years after we got outta high sschool and he was 21 .....we weren't on the same path no more =( Please trust me when i say IF you REALLY want you first time to be special and a gift to the man you spend the rest of your life with then don't!!! If you don't value sex that way then , whatever.
2006-10-15 17:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the nextd step should be a walk threw a park and when ur alone with him sit down nexted to a tree and then lean on his shoulders then go for a kiss
2006-10-15 16:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by superbudz14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it steady for a while your only 14 no need to rush you got all the time in the world just stay the way you are and grow as a couple
2006-10-15 16:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by fallouttony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys are young just have fun hanging out, you know the mall movies, whatever young people where you live do, the kissing and stuff will come naturally.
2006-10-15 16:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by my101201cutiepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay as being friends. You don't ever want to have sex until you're married.
2006-10-15 16:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take it slow going fast is not a good thing. youll more then likely to lose eachother if you have sex i lost my lover from sex.
2006-10-15 17:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋