I’ve been seeing this girl, she is a nice person, worked her own way through college and travelled quite a bit. She is a Scholar at University, and also works part time. She is into Social causes, and makes a lil effort towards that. Recently she has started to dress up, otherwise at home she is totally casual, The office she looks so different. She is hot, and she knows it, guys ask her out all the time, she turns them down ASAP, and tells me abt it, it annoys me cause she is my girl. She socializes a lot, makes friends quick, and loves dancing. I’ve had 6 hour conversations on the phone where both of us went to work next day without sleep, usually gives decent feedback and advice; she is like everyone’s best friend.
She is seriously into work, well almost a workaholic, but knows how to Party. I love it when she dresses up, she does manage to find time for us even if it means missing out on sleep and I love that about her. But the problem is, that I cant seem to figure out if she
2006-10-15 10:04:12 · 7 answers · asked by TheGuy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cant seem to figure out if she loves me
The trouble is that I know for a fact that sha was in love with her ex boyfriend and it did not work out so she tried to forget him, she never brings him up, and when I do she says that past is the past, and it does not matter. She never kissed him, they were dating for 10 months off and on.
Our 3rd date Is when I kissed her, she had never kissed anyone before, but she kissed me back, and it was for like a few minutes, and then she just hugged me, it was this amazing feeling. Tough I have told her I Love Her, she has not said it back, she says she really really likes me, She called me her guy -
her words were " ur my guy, and i really really like u, dont u know that, and then she kissed me on the cheek'
But, I am not sure if she Loves me?? I am not sure if she is a player?? I do not understand why she cant tell me that she loves me??Did the kiss mean anythin to her, and why whats up with that??
shez not in touch with her ex..
2006-10-15 10:06:54 · update #1
She also told me that, if she could change me she would not, cause she likes me just this way
2006-10-15 10:07:54 · update #2
it sounds like she does love you but she's afraid to take the step to tell you. she is being very cautious. be patient with her
2006-10-15 10:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by ronnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to "figure it out". Why don't you just ask her? Be honest, jealousy is not an evil emotion it is natural. Let her know that you feel she is extremely beautiful and you are feeling a little insecure and would like to be reassured that you are her one and only. Honesty is always the best policy, and the truth will come out in the end even if she isn't being honest. . .
2006-10-15 10:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by In God's Image 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you need to relax! She might just be waiting to make sure you are the right person. If you love her you will give her time. She obviously likes to take things slow. Just give her some time.
2006-10-15 10:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Tda11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tink u ave the answer to your question "she's like everyone's best friend"......but if ure uncomfortable wit her being everyone's best friend why not talk to her bout it although i tink you're being unduly bothered by this stuff and why on God's green earth are u bothered about the fact dat she hasnt told u she loves u YET. love takes time it just dosent happen like dat u know
2006-10-15 10:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by petite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is really into you. If you want to know whether or not she loves you, my suggestion is to just ask her how does she feel about you. You sound like you're in love, I suggest you tell her that as well. Good luck.
2006-10-15 10:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out if she.......What???? You need to finish the question!
2006-10-15 10:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno.
2006-10-15 10:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋