2006-10-15 09:55:37 · 34 answers · asked by Kaitlyn P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this guy also likes me back
2006-10-15 10:08:57 · update #1
this guy also likes me back
2006-10-15 10:09:01 · update #2
this guy also likes me back
2006-10-15 10:09:06 · update #3
You probably can't do anything about it if they're happy together. If you let her know she might feel a little awkward around you and then you might just be putting your friendship at risk. Even if they break up, it might not be such a great idea to go out with him. I'm sure there are other guys around that you will like just as much, if not more, and you won't be causing problems with your friendship.
2006-10-15 09:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl its not your fault. You have the right to like anybody and it is not wrong to like your best friend's guy. Its just that he is bound to someone else. It doesn't matter if its your best friend or any other person. You have to forget dating guys who already has a girl of their own.
Any of these is involved if you get into a relationship with him: 1. What comes around, goes around. Someone else might date the guy you love, and believe me, it would hurt you so so much. 2. If you succeed in getting him, you will lose him too. Coz since he did it to the other girl, he would do same to you (leave you for another girl). 3. Girl, think of your bestfriend. For her to be your bestfriend, dat means both of you are very close. So don't choose any guy over your girlfriend coz guys are very trickish.
So wat you have to do is, be as normal as possible. Try and be just his friend and don't act funny. Be a good friend for once. You like him doesn't mean you want him so be careful.
2006-10-15 11:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by genipabu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard thing to go through. First of all don't even give her the slightest clue that your crushing on her boyfriend, because then she won't be able to trust you around him. Second try not to be around him so much. Go out have fun try to meet someone, because it is never good to be crushing on a friends boyfriend it always turns out to where either your not friends no more or one hell of an ugly girl fight. Find your own man thats the best thing to do.
2006-10-15 10:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Esther V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on girl, you of all people should know the answer to this question without getting any rude remarks,,,, would you want someone doing you this way? how would you feel if you found out your friend liked your bf? dont do this to someone else its not fair or right...there are to many available men and guys out there for you to mess with besides one that already has someone and probably a good thing going dont go and hurt your friend over a guy its just not morally right.........find someone else to like .....
2006-10-15 09:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all fairness you should let your friend have her own happiness. Find your own man. If you feel like their relationship is too much for you to handle, eliminate yourself from the presence of them both because eventually yur feeling will begin to show and that will put a damper on your friendship. Lust is a powerful thing.
2006-10-15 10:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Dani29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about it, because it will ruin your friendship, and you're not really being a friend. Friends have certain boundaries, and that is definitely crossing it. You should be happy for her if she has a nice boyfriend, not try to destroy her. If it was your boyfriend, would you want her doing that to you? Remember, what goes around comes around....
2006-10-15 10:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a hobby. that is so wrong. is any man worth screwing up a friendship? how good of friends are you, to want to mess it up, for maybe a year of dating...
if you are over 20, make sure this a 'love' thing, not a teen thing. if you are under 20, finish school, and wait for the real men in college.
wait your turn. think about it...would you like it once you find a good guy in your life, and find out one of your friends is wanting him? how would that make you feel?
put yourself in her shoes for one. two, grow up and get your own anyway, three, seriously think about what you are doing before you screw up your friendship-and most definitely, four, if you still want to 'bust the move' on this guy, better make darn sure he wants you in return. because you will loose out SEVERLY if he doesnt like you.
2006-10-15 10:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by dragonsclaw27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look just be a good friend and back off. There are many fish in the sea, find someone else.
2006-10-15 10:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by kIrA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him alone. One, he is taken. Two, he is taken by your friend. You should never try to go after your friends' boyfriends, even after they break up. It is nothing but an easy way to lose a friend, and gain a bad reputation for yourself. Find someone else!
2006-10-15 09:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Social_D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are too many fish in the sea to risk breaking up a good friendship. Be happy for her and wait for the right one to come along for you. Remember, you reap what you sow and more.
2006-10-15 10:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by sweetpea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋