the guy I am friends with, we flirt but we're not together yet.he went to college 2 hours away so we talk online. he's 18 and has no experience with girls, no girlfriend or anything like that. How do I show him I want to kiss him or that I want him to kiss me? I know he wants to kiss me but I think he's real nervous, plus I'm older and he knows I've kissed before so maybe he feels pressure but we really like each other. So what physical signs can I show him I want to kiss like leading up to it. I know we're playful with each other but how do I cross the line to us kissing. I will see him in December for winter break.
2006-10-15 09:59:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try a couple of gentle pecks on the cheek first.
2006-10-15 10:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by southernboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about confidence, and getting your self out there. Does any of your friends girlfriends have friends? They can introduce you to? Kissing is no big deal comes very naturally. Dont stress out of you haven't kissed a girl yet or havent had a serious girlfriend or whatever... It sounds cheesy but your time will come and when it does everything will fall into place. One thing to remember is that girls can sense things like when your getting nervous. So lighten up, and let go! Everyone has their "big break" at some point, sometimes its just takes a little longer than most. So cheer up, and don't let this get you down. After all, you just may have not met that person thats supposed to give you your first kiss.
2016-05-22 04:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and don't try to surprise him by kissing him without his consent. Tell him you are interested and ask for a kiss. If he is interested and wants to kiss you he will. If he doesn't don't sweat it, and don't be hard on yourself. It might be a little uncomfortable and embarrassing at first, but play it up with some humor and say friends is cool too. But there is the chance that you may get some lip action so be prepared.
2006-10-15 10:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by In God's Image 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask him over the phone. He may feel more comfortable if he knows you want him to do it. You can even mention playfully over the phone or online...maybe next time I see you I can snag a kiss from ya? Tell him how you would really enjoy that and have been thinking about it. Sometimes you can feel more comfortable if you talk about things first. Best of luck.
2006-10-15 10:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Acid Burn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grab him and kiss him already and then you can show him after that how you want to be kissed
2006-10-15 10:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a greeting card mentioning to have a kiss
2006-10-15 10:04:30 · answer #6 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its something that just happens, be patient about the whole thing and it will work out.
2006-10-15 10:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jamps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk this is a hrad one but u should walk around a park and sit nexted to a tree then lean on his shoulders and lean ur head up and kiss him and see how he feels
2006-10-15 10:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by superbudz14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want him to kiss you.
2006-10-15 10:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the lead and kiss him . . . go in slow . . .
2006-10-15 10:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋