My friend "Dee" started chatting on myspace with an author who we both admire. I admire the work because we share a common background & because I am an emerging writer/producer. Dee sought my help to have his work adapted to film. I added the author to my friends list to help promote his book. I got an apology message from him that he told "Dee" we were chatting & she freaked out. He tried to explain to her that he was just joking. In reality, I have never spoken with him until he sent me that message. Now, Dee has deleted me from her friends list. She's obviously upset at me but never even asked me about it & just assumed that what some wack on the internet tells her is true.. This shows how much trust she has in me as a friend. So what do I do? Do I try to explain to her that we never chatted or do I just blow her off? She has used me to get to men in the past. I don't even know if it's the real author or just a fake.
2006-10-15 10:37:52 · 5 answers · asked by LaLa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You said it yourself. She's used you in the past. If she's using you, she's not a friend. If she believes a stranger rather than believe you wouldn't be capable of such a thing, not only is she not a friend, but she believes it because it is what she would do to you given the chance! That's why it seems plausible to her.
I gather you're a pretty well-adjusted person; you need to be writing dramas, not living them.
2006-10-15 10:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do here is just tell Dee your side of the story. Tell her that if she would rather believe a guy she just met over you, that's fine - you dont want to be friends with her anymore, either. If she comes to her senses and apologizes for being a stupid twit, then take her back.
2006-10-15 10:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by zarbhebz_1012@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's closed the door on your friendship.
Should she open the communications, and you truly feel 'sorry' for any actions you did, then let her know. Don't' force her to accept an apology, and don't apologize unless you deep down feel that you have caused harm.
2006-10-15 10:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow her off. You should be friends with nice folks.... she sounds like a big meanie... MySpace is the devil, never been there myself....
2006-10-15 10:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Hillary Dillary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blow er off
2006-10-15 11:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Tay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋