My husband thinks my kids are bad. They are normal 8 and 9 year olds. Not horribly bad, not angelicly good. I know they aren't angels. I think his children are bad in ways that my kids aren't. Again, his kids are not angels and not horribly bad. Both of his are disrespectful to adults. My kids are loud and fight with each other. My prob is that hubby has compared his kids to mine. His are angels, mine are miserable. This makes me angry and kinda makes me resent his kids. I try not to. but, it's hard. He spanks my kids, but never his own even when they do things that are worse than what mine do. He takes my child support $ and uses it for bills. He takes the child support for his daughter and puts it in a savings account for her. His family owns the house we live in. So, they would say that is why her child support goes into savings while mine is used. I'm sick of the double standards and it is causing bad feelings. I love him dearly though. What can I do?
2006-10-15
15:48:20
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