my whole family is full of pimp and whore's from my uncles to my aunties everybody. im the only one if my family that went to college and have a real job. the problem i having is my girlfriend what's to meet my family. what do u think i should do? i never told her my dad is a pimp."i always told her he is a business man" at first look my dad look like a successful business man until he start talking " that when u can tell he gets he’s money from" he had a big house 3 745 boats ect. should i tell her my dad is a pimp or just let her think my dad is a wild dude with a lot of woman. she always wanted to know what type of business my family was into because i never worked in college and always had nice things. do u think its time to tell her? hlep me out
2006-10-15 15:44:05 · 19 answers · asked by Priesd D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is for real not a joke i know it my seem square to be on the internet asking questions like this but i jsut wanted to know what people think. cant talk to pop's about it hes not gonig to change for ANYBODY
2006-10-15 15:44:20 · update #1
You have already proved to yourself that you can do whatever you need to do to be successful in life. Don't lower your head or be embarrassed about anything. If you really care about this girl, then tell her the truth. There aren't many who come from storybook families. If you lie to her, what are you going to do if you become serious about her. Just tell the truth and if she is offended by your Dad's lifestyle, she will know the truth. We can't do anything about the decisions our parents made, but we do have control of our own lives.
2006-10-15 15:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by kayboff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your serious the least problem you've got is your girlfriend. Move far far away, contact no relative from your past live, never discus your past life with any new friends, coworkers etc., and in case your thick and I need to be blunt, you've already lost your girlfriend. I hope this is a joke. if it is ha ha ha not. You might be surprised how many people strive all their lives to better themselves.
2006-10-15 22:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by mld m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you went to college, why don't you take over the family business, and be an educated pimp?
2006-10-15 22:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Tell her you're embarrased and ashamed of what your parent do. And tell her that as soon as you're old enough, you're gonna move as far away from them(within the city) as you can. Within the city so that your girl(if you and her end up getting married or whatever) can live in the same town as her parents.
2006-10-15 22:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth... If she likes you and knows who you are it should be okay... As long as you ain't know pimp wit some hoes and tricks it shouldn't matter what your parents are but the reality of it is you shouldn't have lied in the first place... but it will be fine.
2006-10-15 22:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by kelsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, this question does sound like a joke, but if it isn't...
Hey, you are who you are. You can't help where you came from, your parents seemed to have done something right in raising you....or was that in spite of them? Your apple has fallen far from the tree, and your girlfriend will see that when you're honest with her.
Good luck
2006-10-15 22:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Bingo's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm tell her the truth and she better accept it, if not she's not worth it. BUT if its a little too soon in the relationship to tell her that just say he's a hugh hefner sort of buisness man, and he works with naked women and you're embaressed, then you can expand on that a little later. ;) good luck
2006-10-15 22:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Kylie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a test for your girlfriend's love for you. don't hide anything about your family -- its your family & you can't change it! be honest with your girl. if she loves you, she should accept your family for what they are and be happy that at least you are not like them. if she can't accept your family, then she is not the right girl for you. remember : lovers & friends will leave you at some low point in your life but never your family will.
2006-10-15 22:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're serious about your relationship, you should be honest with her. She's going to find out eventually, if you stay with her. If she is unable to accept you and your family for what it is, you have little chance of a future together.
2006-10-15 22:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your serious about the girl then yes.If she dont stick by you just because of your dads job then she's not that great of a catch.
2006-10-15 22:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by *WEDA* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋