when i go to parties and guys dance with me or try to kiss me is it only because they are drunk? sober guys rarely seem to take an interest in me. i really wish i was "a hot chick" so that i could hook up withguys. when im drunk im a lot more confident but in real life i think im hideous and feel like no one could ever be attracted to me. i know people who dont look like porn stars MUST be hooking up. how can they get over not being perfectly proportioned? does anyone look normal and still get to hook up with people? without the influence of alchohol?? ive only kissed drunk boys and thats all :(
2006-10-15 15:44:40 · 6 answers · asked by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uuughhh that guy who talked about having big butts. what if your butt is just NORMAL?? do you have any hope in life. i give up. i seriously want to crawl in a hole and die.
2006-10-15 16:04:39 · update #1
PAY ATTENTION TO GUYS YOU LIKE!!!
Only drunk guys or guys "playing the numbers" will hit on girls who don't pay attention to them.
All you gotta do is look at guys, talk to them, and pay attention to them. If you hide in a big group of girls, sober guys will be too scared to approach.
2006-10-15 16:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by Arbor Dude 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like a girl with a little bit of booty, pretty face and smile and who has goals in life besides working at the local McDonalds. If you cover these points well you should have no problem finding a F.B. for the night. If it's a relationship, your not going to find it at a party unless it's a classy party. Every man loves a drunk faced girl cause she'll perform better than a well leveled headed girl who is sober. Drunk guys must feel ugly and unloved inside that's why they try hitting on you. Your all that they have in life. Sober guys are more picky, they want what a movie star or rock star has and that's probably not going to happen, so just try your hardest to look as good as you can and shake that money maker baby!
2006-10-15 15:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be one of two reasons
1. Either your ugly and the guys need the alcohol to see beyond that. Or
2. Your to gorgeous and they have to get drunk to get up the courage to even speak to you.
It's probably #2 because alcohol relaxes you so you feel more confidant.
2006-10-15 15:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by webwriter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously must be somewhat attractive if you are at least getting approached at all. have you heard the term "liquid courage " maybe it just takes a little bit of alcohol to loosen them up and they feel alot more comfortable especially when drunk. i wouldn't worry too much.
2006-10-15 16:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try meeting guys at places other than parties where the booze flows. if you meet sober guys and don't care if they kiss you within the first couple of hours, you might find that they want to kiss you within the first couple of days.
2006-10-15 15:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting drunk makes you bold, that's why.
2006-10-15 15:53:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋