I'm 16 / male and I have a boyfriend 16/ male too. We liked each other alot before we got together. Now that we're together, it seems like I'm sort of the one who plans every outing, text him first and stuff like that. I tell him "i love you" every night, he'll just reply a "good night". He's not the mushy type though. So i don't know if he loves me or not. His mom says that he has very little emotions and i agree too. So maybe I shouldn't blame him for not saying "i love you too", or is it that he doesn't love me? I get very depressed when I think of him. I don't know why. He is very very addicted to computer games. Now that school's out, he spends even more time with his computer. I plan to stay over often in his house so i could be next to him when he is game-ing. I bought him a present for our One Month's anniversary. However, he didnt get anything for me. Can someone please tell me what should I do now? I don't know how long more I can take this. But I can't bear to leave him.
2006-10-15 15:39:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And it's really hard for me to find another boyfriend. So I don't want to let him go.
2006-10-15 15:45:28 · update #1
And it's really hard for me to find another boyfriend. So I don't want to let him go. And I also asked him to teach me how to game. So we can game together in future and lessen our gap.
2006-10-15 15:47:00 · update #2
your just 16 you should find someone that has more of the same interests that you have. if you must have a boyfriend and you are very in touch with your emotions, you should find a guy that is as emotional. if you continue to be ignored by your gaming boyfriend you might miss out on the guy of your dreams.
2006-10-15 15:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by dee-dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just sounds like you are a mature 16 year old, and he is still immature, which is normal for a 16 year old teen. So with that said, he is not going to see things the way you do....he doesn't get it yet....If his Mom said he doesn't show emotions well, then he can't express them ......Personally, I don't think he is mature enough for a relationship with anyone.His interest is only in playing games....A relationship is not a game...Good luck.
Although it will hurt, you need to move on. Sorry
2006-10-15 22:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt make you happy dont settle there is someone out there who will love you just the way you want to be loved
2006-10-15 22:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by ashley l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋