what is the appropiate age to lose your virginity?

Question

im thinking about having being active but im only 14.

Answer 1

You should loose your virginity when you find somene that you truely love and want to be with for the rest of your life. And at age 14 your not in love!!! On your wedding day when your mom tells you how beatiful you are, your flower girls are straighting your dress and your dad walks you down the isle to the man that GOD has planned for you to marry you will be proud that you waited. PLEASE WAIT and don't do that to your-self. I know I gave up my virginity very young and I regreat it. If you want to feel loved beleive in God and look to him. Pray and praise his name and he will love you forever! Or go get in your mom's lap with a blanket and tell her that you want her to hold you so you will feel loved!! That's what I used to do!!! Here is a poem that you can carry with you at all times so that when you think about it you can remeber!!!! --------------------------------------------------------------------

There's a beautiful gift inside this package.
It's wrapped for protection.
Tied for security.
Stamped:
"Fragile!"
"Handle with Care!"

It's easy to loosen the strings,
To let anyone tear away
the wrapping,
To give the gift without commitment—
Offer it to the
highest bidder,
Or hand it out as
a prize for a game.

There's a gift wrapped
inside this brown paper.
It's for keeps
—not to be exchanged.
It's a surprise,
A happy treat to be
opened by the person
To whom it's addressed,

On the date marked
"Forever."
If you need to talk to someone you can E-mail me at [e-mail] I will be glad to talk to you.

Answer 2

You are just too young! I was 22 before I lost my virginity and this was my choice. I always remembered what my father told me and that was if you plan on having sex, just make sure you are ready to sit across the table from her for the rest of your life! I didn't come across that girl until I was 22 and we were married two years later.I had plenty of opportunities in high school, but I always thought that there would always be that chance that she would get pregnant so we didn't. I didn't want to ruin her or my future with a child we were not prepared to raise. You are still a kid yet! Have you thought about the chance of getting HIV? If you care about who you are and what to be respected, wait until you find Mister Right. I would say you should be no younger than 18, and then only if he has protection. You should both be trully in love with each other and plan for a long future together before having sex .

Answer 3

i lost my virginity when i was 14, it was the worst thing i ever did. when u have sex, you give that person a part of you that you cannot get back.that's why sex was designed for marriage. the emothions and things you put your self through when you are sexually active are too stressful for an adult, much less a 14 year old. please , consider keeping yourself. every man dreams of marrying a virgin. every woman should try her best to make it as far as she can with out having sex. you are special, beautiful, and fearfully and wonderfully made by God. Your purity is so special, it should not be shared with just some guy, no matter how you feel about him. There will be others, whom you will like and or love, and there will be others who will like or love you. please try to keep yourself. i am now married and saved and i wish i could have been a virgin when i got married. what i gave away before, i wished i had saved for this very special husband of mine. i am 22, i really could have waited. just think about it!!!

Answer 4

I hate to sound motherly but... you are way to young for that kinda decision! I was just a little older than you and I will regret it until the day I die! I didn't even enjoy it, honestly! I was to young to know what it was all about and that there are consequences! You need to think about pregnancy. Not only would it not be fair to you if you got pregnant but it would really not be fair to a baby! If I had it to do over I would have waited. I ended up marrying my first and we had a baby. Nine years of hell later we were divorced and I've raised my daughter on my own for the most part! Make a future for yourself! You have your whole adult life to find a man and have sex! You are only a kid once! P.S. If he loves you he will respect you enough to wait!

Answer 5

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Answer 6

14 is a little to young. At that age your vulnerable and mentally
can't handle it. If he says you'll do it if you love me. Its a lie, he will
run tell his friends and you will be labled a slut. Its best to Wait
until your married. When a man looks for a wife he wants to marry a virgin . Not some girl that every man has had. So tell him if you love me you'll wait. If he says no. Say good buy.
there's other fish in the sea. One that will respect you.

Answer 7

I think 14 is waaaaaaaaay too young, wait till you are older and make sure you are in love with your partner. Dont do it just because everybody seems to be doing it.

Answer 8

If your not ready to have a baby then don't. Even if you use protections you could still end up having a baby. Your still a baby yourself. Sex is for grownups. If your not married then don't. Talk to your mom.

Answer 9

Untill marriage dear,Keep yourself virgin untill marriage..
17 is the starting age..

Answer 10

When you are married. It will be so much more worth while and special then...so everyone tells me. I'm waiting until I'm married and I hope whoever I marry will too.