woke up one morning before my bofriend and I and walked in our room. My boyfriend sleeps in boxers and a t-shirt and the covers was half off and he was a bit "exposed". My daughter seen his exposed areas and was curious about his "booty". I made a big deal and fussed at him about the whole situation and thought he should have slept in full pajamas that I purchased for him. But I now realize it wasn't much anybody could have done to avoid the situation. Good thing is that my daughter have not talked about this issue yet. Do I owe him an apology, after all we were in our own bedroom.
2006-10-15 15:49:34 · 11 answers · asked by Niinnaa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No I dont think an apology is warranted here. Let it go and in the future try to get him to cover his butt. lol gotta admit it is kind of funny though aint it?
2006-10-15 15:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you owe him an apology, it was in fact your daughter that walked into the room and not the other way around. it may seem uncomfortable, but if all she saw was his booty, this shouldn't be that traumatizing to her. i am married and have 3 daughters. 10, 5 and 18 months old and i dont always sleep in my p.j.'s either. (they just know that our room is off limits) you could be as careful as can be, but it will still eventually happen. not much you can do about it other than explain to your daughter the best you can.
2006-10-15 16:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that accidents happen and yes you did need to talk to him about it. He should know that all little kids want to be with mommy. My girls come in my room alot. But when there dad is in his boxers i lock the door. So apologize to him but stress to him to lock the door or were the pajamas you got him in case she ventures into ur room again.
2006-10-15 15:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey try teaching her to knock be fore she enters your room. Hope this will help. Try to explain that some people don't sleep in pajama's She should be old enough to understand. God Bless.I think it would be a good idea to have him wear the bottoms of the p.j's though. Not trying to be offensive.
2006-10-15 15:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think you should apologies. She's only 3 it's doubtful she will remember. Besides many kids see people naked by accident. Sooner or later she will learn about body parts anyway. At least it was just the booty, ya know?
2006-10-15 15:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe, an apology for the way u may or may not have talked to him, but not for requesting that be covered up. you do have a child, that child comes first, and every precaution should be taken not to expose them to these things. sure it was an accident, and it could have happened to anyone, but he has o understand y u reacted the way u did.
when my husband and i were dating, his daughter(now my stepbaby), walked in on us and it was embarassing, and something that we couldnt help, we thought she was asleep, never the less, we still had a little arguement about it!!! things happen!!
2006-10-15 16:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by leeleebear2529 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I would apologize. As u said, you were in ur bedroom.
It is good your daughter is asking questions. There are diff ways of handling it at diff ages.
2006-10-15 15:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by j s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do, and with having a child that age, he needs to wear atleast underwear when he goes to bed.
2006-10-15 15:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by dns618 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should appologize.
I dont understand why you would have freaked out any way. I took baths with my dad until I was about 5. Our 3 yr. old see's us go to the rest room. And her dad does his best to not show him self when he is getting in and out of the shower, but we dont hide. They take baths together in the jacuzzt tub. we (my daughtr and i) shower together.
our body's are natural, nothing to frak out about
2006-10-15 15:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by k-ray 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, I would apologize and then drop it.
2006-10-15 15:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by lovedietdp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋