Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

I have found lately that when my good friend tells me about her and her husband fighting that I begin to attack my husband and start a fight. Why do I do this and how do I slap myself silly and make it stop?

2006-10-14 06:12:25 · 14 answers · asked by Stacey 2 in Friends

just feelings....




never things still as it forever...
that`s what a life taught me in my life...
and this what i knew and felt...
when i searched about the faces around me,...
i and didn`t find any of those who i knew ...
searched about the faces which i loved...
searched about the faces whom i thought that they loved me..
but didn`t find that whom i loved or at least thought that...
every thing never to be and to still as it...
even a human kind too...

by: hazem02@yhaoo.com


By hazem02


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yours
hazem

2006-10-14 06:12:13 · 7 answers · asked by ahazem02 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has said that he's not going to stop doing what he likes to do just because we have a brand new baby. I feel that now we have a baby our lives should be modified and adjusted so that we do things together as a family. I don't like alwayse being the one to stay home while he goes on hunting , fishing and skiing trips and tries to justify going on each one. He needs to make some sacrifies as well.

2006-10-14 06:12:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have just started a new relationship and I couldn't be happier. But I am also carrying a large load with me that I would like to get rid of.

A few years ago I got pretty sick and it has altered my appearance just enough to make me uncomfortable with my looks. So I have effectively covered up the problem. However, I feel that it's something that I need to tell the guy, for honesty's sake. I am being a little vague, but the actual conflict I feel is more important than what is wrong with me. I'm perfectly healthy now, by the way- it's just that my physical appearance got scarred.

Although he seems like a very caring and accepting individual, I don't know how he'll react. He may no longer be attracted to me, I fear. I don't know the appropriate time to bring it up or how, because it's very emotional for me. It's also something that I keep very private- my best friend doesn't even know.

How do you suggest I handle this situation without freaking him out?

2006-10-14 06:10:46 · 16 answers · asked by Karen W 2 in Singles & Dating

now i dont knw y but i have kinda become very addicted to chattin??i always come online to check out whether my friends are online or not (atleats 2 or 3 times a day.).i like chattin but still i dont like this change in myself.pls help me someone.neone facin the same problem ????the thing is i like someone and i usually come online to check whether hes there or not.but now i want to forget him . tryin to ignore him kinda.do u think i am goin rite??pls help!!!

2006-10-14 06:08:51 · 21 answers · asked by glam g 1 in Friends

me and my boyfriend are pretty close. we like to spend time together and we love to talk. but lately he feels really distant. he's stoped calling me and has been avioding me in school. what do you think is going on? it's only started resently. well....he was like that when we first started going out but he got better. what am i going to do? how do i let him know how i feel? he's the kinda person who when you tell him how you feel...he gets all akward. how do i tell him w/ out him freaking out? i have been trying hard to keep our relationship going. it takes so much work. what am i doing wrong?

2006-10-14 06:08:47 · 13 answers · asked by Emy 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom passed to the Spirit World just over a year ago, and I still really miss her. I miss her everyday. I don't cry anymore, I just have a feeling of emence sadness. I write to her in a journal, but I just can't shake this missing her. Any suggestions.

2006-10-14 06:08:33 · 18 answers · asked by grey wolf 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-14 06:07:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He is probably still living in the area like braidwood or coal city illinois.

2006-10-14 06:07:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I need an attorney real bad that takes payments so I can get a divorce and get my husband out . I need one that will fight for me . My husband is having an affair.

2006-10-14 06:06:06 · 6 answers · asked by hillbilliecotton2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Not to tell them off for cheating or leaving.Just to say hi. What was their reaction? My ex and i actually had a good conversation and some laughs. Is this normal?

2006-10-14 06:04:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-14 06:03:08 · 8 answers · asked by victoria... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Wedding deserts any ideas he is Italian and i am Spanish?

2006-10-14 06:01:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-14 05:59:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 05:58:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My girl freind cheated on me early this year. We broke up but i decided to give her a second chance. Problem is i keep having visuals of when she cheated and i get so upset when i think of it, its affecting our relationship coz i dont trust her at times. I really love this girl, we have been together for 3 years and i wanted to marry her, but things are not the same in my heart. Should i stay or let her go?

2006-10-14 05:56:36 · 18 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im girl freind cheated on me early this year. We broke up but i decided to give her a second chance. Problem is i keep having visuals of when she cheated and i get so upset when i think of it, its affecting our relationship coz i dont trust her at times. I really love this girl, we have been together for 3 years and i wanted to marry her, but things are not the same in my heart. Should i stay or let her go?

2006-10-14 05:56:05 · 15 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK, This may be weird but my GF is 18 which is 21 years younger than myself. She's a good girl and Loves me to death and will do anything to be with me. I'm scared because I know women change at least every 7 years. But she's "out there" which makes me think there may be a chance. I've told her I'll be 60 when she's 39 already. What do I do? I also have one who is 37 and wants me bad and she's got lots of money. (which helps a little) but it's hard to go from 18 to 37. I suck but am still confused as hell.

2006-10-14 05:52:55 · 31 answers · asked by Just Me baby 3 in Singles & Dating

An adopted child searches for their birth parents and it is a possibility that the parent wants nothing to do with their shild, there may be a chance they dont find their biological parents. Whats next for the adopted child? Is it a chance that the child will have some type of break down...maybe trust issues...emotional problems...problems effecting their futhe?

2006-10-14 05:52:12 · 4 answers · asked by mondadondiva 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when the front door is always open?

2006-10-14 05:50:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To be understood, is simply not what is expected from the values of truth, but instead the realization that physical manisfestations could provide such pleasures that one must consider the outcome of lending oneself to more than just a being, transcending our earthly boundaries in which the cosmos await. Such is the way of the orgasm. Agreed?

2006-10-14 05:50:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now,this is kind of a 2 part question.I know this is a thing of the 80's but,How many women still find a man wearing spandex sexy?
I'm curious because,I wear it when I workout.It's way more comfortable to me,than just regular shorts,and it helps to regulate body temp.But,moving on,What is the most attractive clothing a man can wear?

2006-10-14 05:50:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel bad and can't get it out of my head that I fought with my partner. We've fought about 3 times (been together a year), but they were little tiffs that we got over in the morning- this one is different.

We fought because last night I brought up something that's been really bothering me- that I wish he make me feel more special / wanted (he's very nice to me, but I don't feel special / beautiful around him). He was very offended.

I tried apologizing and even turned my car back around to go back to his house this morning because I felt so awful. He's not even making an effort to work through it, he's just acting angry. His friend will be coming up from PA tonight, so they will be having a good time, and he doesn't seem as affected by this as me.

I would go out, but he's my only friend (pathetic, I know, but he has 3 friends and they're all in different states).

I want it to blow over- this kind of thing hasn't happened to us.

Advice / comments if you relate?

2006-10-14 05:50:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 05:48:31 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-14 05:48:28 · 34 answers · asked by Boginya 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister think s it looks awful when a women is taller than her partner!So i think this might be the reason she doesnt get a guy as shes quite tall!! i cant see that this is a problem can you??

2006-10-14 05:47:33 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MEn are like diapers... full of shi* and always on your as*!!!


Your views please....

No offence, guys.... : )

2006-10-14 05:47:03 · 18 answers · asked by DiL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy now for 3 and a half weeks. He wants to kiss me. I guess I do, too. I know kissing isn't that big of a deal, but should I just do it or wait until I feel ready?

2006-10-14 05:45:56 · 22 answers · asked by Larissa B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 05:45:54 · 7 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Friends

what is an ideal and different name for calling my bestfriend like... beshie.. besty.. but i would like to hear different yet cute name for my bestfriend... one more thing...we are girls those who i will choose the best.. i will make it the best answer!!

2006-10-14 05:45:21 · 13 answers · asked by ..Cherry.. 2 in Friends