My mom passed to the Spirit World just over a year ago, and I still really miss her. I miss her everyday. I don't cry anymore, I just have a feeling of emence sadness. I write to her in a journal, but I just can't shake this missing her. Any suggestions.
2006-10-14 06:08:33 · 18 answers · asked by grey wolf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know how you feel, I also lost my mom and miss her everyday.Sometimes I just close my eyes and picture her in happy times and then I feel a bit better. As time passes I think it will get easier for you. Just never let go of the good memories.
2006-10-14 06:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by hawkesnest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A year is not a long time ago. Unfortunately a big part of you left when your mom passed into the Spirit World. I lost my mom 7 years ago and I still cry occasionally, but lately she visits me in my dreams and I find that very comforting. Talk about her to your friends and keep a picture of her close at hand. If you have any of her jewellery, wear it. That's what I did for comfort and it helped me out alot.
2006-10-14 20:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well 1st i wanted to say i am sincerley sorry and i really don't know what it feels like but i have lost someone close to me very close and it sucks plain out sucks you will hurt for along time and cry and be in awful pain but as time goes by you will overcome and and not really move on but go on with you life that is what she would want you to do, and just know that she still and always will love you,like you will always love her. you will never stop missing her but she also doesn't want you done and upset all the time. she there even if you belive or no it or not she is in your presents and she watching you looking after you. just keeping an eye on you. and if there is ever and thing little or big that may happen or you get a really strange feeling all of a sudden like while at home or something, just know it's her just letting you know i'm okay...and belive me you will be too...
2006-10-14 13:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by *Babbs* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I know how you feel, I lost my dad just over a year ago and I am still coming to terms with it, I like to think that although he has passed his spirit is still around me, so I talk to him and tell him funny things that have happened, I still miss him and always will, I still cry when I think about him not being around, but we (my family) talk about him all the time. The pain is always there and with his birthday and Christmas approaching it brings back all the memories. But he will always be alive in our hearts. Keep talking to you mum and keep writing to her, she is watching over you and she is by your side, I fully believe in that. Keep strong for her sake, make her proud of you, I am sending lots of love to you, be brave. Try talking to your family, they probably feel the same way.
2006-10-14 13:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never really get over missing your mom once she's gone. But you have proved to yourself your getting better everyday by your saying you don't cry anymore. Just hang in there and know your mom's watching over you as well. Memories can never be taken from you so hold onto those memories and smile when you think them. ;o)
2006-10-14 13:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Angel
I know of a very special Lady,
That has played a big part of my life.
There’s not a single word to describe her,
But I love her more than life.
She’s always been there for me,
Especially when I needed a friend.
No-matter how I changed through the years,
She always understood my trend.
Somehow she always knew what to say,
When I was in grief, agony, or pain.
Her love, kindness and smile were always there,
Especially when things I’d do seemed insane.
There is no other woman,
On this place we call earth.
That could possibly replace her love,
After all, she’s Mom! The lady that gave me birth.
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-10-14 13:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Cobra 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
My mom passed 3 yrs ago, and I still miss her and cry for her. The only thing that has helped me is to talk about her to my family and remember her that way. Sometimes it makes you sadder, but if you bottle your feelings or memories in, it only makes it worse. The more you talk about her and the more you let out your memories, the better you feel.
2006-10-14 13:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by mavis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Continue writing in your journal.
I lost my Dad in 2003. I miss him dearly, but it's not the first time I've lost someone.... so I know that I will eventually learn to accept his absence, too. The feeling of loss will remain.... and the intensity of the sadness, too, but as time passes by- you will have control over when to allow it to overcome you.
2006-10-14 13:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must read a book by Sylvia Brown called the otherside and back. I no longer feel sad for long when I lose a loved one only grateful that I had a chance to know and love them. I hope you can be like that one day too.
2006-10-14 13:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by Rizzo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have lost 7 relatives over the past 5 years. Its not easy to cope with the lose one.My father and mother died several years ago.I find great joy and peace knowing they are in heaven.I would suggest praying to God about it and asking him for a peace that only he can supply.Try not to dwell on it and move on with your life.Try finding a friend that you can confide in.The hardest thing I have had to deal with that they all died from a long dreaded disease cancer
2006-10-14 13:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by xlhdrider 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋