I've been dating this guy now for 3 and a half weeks. He wants to kiss me. I guess I do, too. I know kissing isn't that big of a deal, but should I just do it or wait until I feel ready?
2006-10-14 05:45:56 · 22 answers · asked by Larissa B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should wait until you are ready to take your relationship to the next level. Just make sure to let him know how you feel about the issue at hand and why you aren't into kissing him yet. He may feel rejected, but why sacrifice what you feel is right? Good luck, girl!
2006-10-15 04:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by EvilGuppy09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to intimacy you should always wait until you feel ready. The real question in your scenario seems, to me, to be why are you dating a guy that you still arent' ready to kiss (it's just a kiss) even after 3 weeks. Maybe you're not ready 'cause he's not the right guy for you and your forcing the relationship just so that you have someone in your life. Maybe I'm just old fashioned, but 3 weeks and no kiss? That speaks deeply of some serious issues at hand.
2006-10-14 05:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by OU812 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are 18 and under, wait a little longer.
If you are an adult, then why wait? I kissed on my first date (a first kiss does not mean you are sleeping with him).
2006-10-14 05:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by bc_grl68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When ever you are ready to take the relationship to the next level
wither it's the first date or after 3 weeks, whatever you are comfortable with
2006-10-14 05:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Karce 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you feel its a romantic time then go for it the first kiss should always be the most romantic one
2006-10-14 05:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by Deadman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
goes without saying. Would you rather have a rushed not in the moment kiss that wont mean anything to you guys because it didnt feel perfect, or wait and be sweeter.
2006-10-14 05:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Audrey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok! if u dont feal like u are ready for a kiss let him know. becouse maby a kiss means a lot to u. tell him how u feal and why u havent kissed him. so he douse not think he has bad breath or something
2006-10-14 05:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by baby gurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't get forced into it. you should wait until you are both ready, and only if you truly feel the same way about each other. then it should be done your way, and make it clear that he shouldn't expect anything more until you are ready. trust me, i know about this sort of stuff.
2006-10-14 22:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by nikbaker.gnikg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go on...according to your instincts....yeah kissiing someone ..especially someone whom ya are close to isn't a big deal...you say you might have to wait till ya are ready....
don't ya see you are ready already.?.......and just look ....when ya have the first ya will then know if ya are ready for one or not>
Have an unforgettable kiss!
2006-10-14 05:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by Entity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The life is too short and do not miss the golden moments so come up and hear ur heart not the advice of others.
2006-10-14 06:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by hm_pearl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋