2006-10-14 06:07:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Long story. Ive known and been great freinds with this girl for 8 months. Both of us enjoy to be together, make eachother laugh and smile, but shes currently dating another guy. Ive also known this guy for a while and hes not a guy of great character. Hes going to hurt her emotionally, and no one can warn her. Help please.
2006-10-14 06:09:41 · update #1
Be her friend, listen when she wants to talk and never say bad things about her b/f. If you do, you run the risk of her not sharing things with you (about him) again. Don't pressure her into anything. What will be, will be. You don't know for sure that he will hurt her emotionally. If/when he does, you'll be right there beside her to be her strength. Has she turned to you when she's down and hurt about something? For the time being, you'll just have to love her from a distance...Take my advice buddy...I too am in love with someone, she doesn't know it, but I'll ALWAYS 'be there' for her.
2006-10-14 06:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only friends for 8 months with the girl.she is 'currently' dating not loving a lothario rake.he is also playing.it is common story.thousands like this.you are in love and will give your all, as all fools do in love. keep watching her change her romeos. maybe she too is playing. all do. till they are caught w preg.
YOU seek other human society and learn fast.Go to dances and the gym and meet people, types of girls. you are a man in love and cannot be told to leave her. people like you will learn the hard way.
2006-10-14 06:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her call when to call it quits with the other guy... till then- live life. If mourning over someone you never had in the first place is life for you, then so be it. It's your life.
2006-10-14 06:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It’s not like it’s your chose, it’s her, if she like you then you in, if not, let her go. You only go nut and waste time. And there are a lot of girls waiting for guys like you.
2006-10-14 06:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are screwed. Wait until it breaks up.
Why did you wait until she found someone? Or is she more interesting now because she found someone?
2006-10-14 06:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,whatever it is shes in love with someone else and you cannot change it!!it'll be better if you just move on cos its not wise to be wanting to have someone for your selfish reasons when she is with someone else!!good luck!!
2006-10-14 06:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋