Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

I have a question. What traps do you women set to get us guys whipped. I want to know what they are so I can recognize them, and avoid them before its too late!!!!

2006-10-14 21:31:56 · 13 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And why does he find it funny?

2006-10-14 21:31:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 29 and have been single for 6 yrs. I'm quite attractive and easy going so I don't understand why I can't seem to get a date.

2006-10-14 21:29:26 · 13 answers · asked by luc 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to waste the day...

2006-10-14 21:28:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Considering you have found love, What do you find most difficult, frustrating, or mind numbing about it. I'm not asking what bothers you the most about your significent other, I'm asking about love itself. What kills you the most?

2006-10-14 21:28:00 · 15 answers · asked by Sentinel 3 in Singles & Dating

Time where you are? I'm here in the Lonestar state, and it's 3:30. I'm up packing for a trip....just wondering if there were anymore night owls up like me....

2006-10-14 21:26:31 · 13 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Singles & Dating

whether its physical or emotional, or both.

2006-10-14 21:25:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok...ANdrea and Helen and I were like Best friends for 4 years. Then lests bring the "GANG of GUYS" in to the story. ANdrea and Helen were kinda close to them. But not me...I dodnt like 'em. they neva knew tat and call all 3 of us to hang. I went rarley but A and H went quiet often. the gang og guys understood that i wsnt TAHT close to 'em so dey stopped CALLING me. then they realize (thanks to helen) that i hate 'em. that made 'em mad. so starting Helen...they brain washed her to be with 'em and not me. they, with helen's help, did the same to andrea. omg...v.bad. i relly didnt (or tried not to) care. well...i accepted the fact that they were too easy to be influenced. ok...then the gang of guys have a huge fight it seems. since i used to be a good advice giver and very sensible, helen and andrea asked the gang of guys to ask me for help. well they did. i got so mad that helen and andrea made them ask me. i screamed to them asking them to go get someone else casue i was mad. am i rng?

2006-10-14 21:24:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-14 21:19:09 · 11 answers · asked by cenderella m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why cant they be simple things to hundle?

2006-10-14 21:18:23 · 16 answers · asked by daflex 1 in Friends

b4 i start this i wanna let ya'll know that i love my mom very much...

...but sometimes i wanna just choke her!!! she's always yelling at me, and she always wants my help with stuff. i am only 15, and she won't really let me hang out with my friends, because she says its too dangerous, she and my father are pastors, and i try to help out where i can, but sometimes she just keeps adding things to my list of things to do, and she never seems satisfied with what i get done. it feels like i have to be perfect because anything less than perfect will piss her off. now i know that my mom loves me, and she doesn't hit me and stuff, but sometimes i feel like i just can't make her happy. now i am a daddy's girl, and i know this andshe knows this. when i am upset about something i confide in him, even that pisses her off cuz she says we taking sides against her. i have an older brother, and he don't help out wit the church at all, he even had a child out of wedlock, but nomatter what, i get it

2006-10-14 21:18:18 · 7 answers · asked by Confused & Young 4 in Family

I sent an sms to a guy I'm friends with letting him know I like him (the words I used were "want to be more than casual friends"). Generally how much time would he be likely to need to respond to this? He sent an sms to me 3 1/2 hours ago saying he would need a little time to prepare his answer. What does it mean if it takes him a long time to reply?

2006-10-14 21:17:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She tells me she loves me, it's great when we're together. But she is a very independant girl and proud of it. She has something lined up for herself every minute of every day, whether it's work, her friends, or me (from time to time). I am a pretty good guy. I have my head on my shoulders, close to graduating college, and want a future and am considering a future with her but I just don't know. We have sex and she calls me several times today only to tell me she's going out with her friends and then doesn't call me tonight. She knows how I feel and I know she feels the same. It just that it only seems like she feels that way sometimes. So, what do you think she is thinking? How do I tell her I want her with me, or can I show her somehow? Need some advice.

2006-10-14 21:16:37 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

my wife and I are always getting into arguments over little things?
I can't seem to get her to talk to me in a civil manner, even when I just say good morning it starts a fight? is there any hope or are we doomed?

2006-10-14 21:15:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with this girl who is in a different city than me. I usually call her once every night. She knows I love her more than anyone else.
However we have not talked in a week now. She does not pick up. She is probably mad at me for something but does not say.
I know for a fact that if I let this phase pass by, she will start talking to me again.
My question is:
How do I control myself from not calling her a lot?
In a situation like this, it feels like I should call her more than before because I miss her and just wanna talk with her but I know if I wil call her more, that will drive her away further.
So give me some tips on controlling myself.
Also what should I say in the voicemail that will melt her heart and make her feel like answering the phone?
I know she listens to my voicemails but I feel like I said everything there is to say and any ideas on cool things to say to makeup would be hepful.
Thanks smart yahoo latenighters!

2006-10-14 21:14:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is in my class, my friends is his friends.. We are totally different & we sometimes do stuff like arguing. I have his phone number and he knows that i like him..I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.

2006-10-14 21:11:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There seems to be a bit of a double standard with this. Older men date younger women all the time, but if a younger guy asks an older woman out, she looks at him like he has three heads. Why is this?

2006-10-14 21:10:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband go out twice a week with his friend and come home after mid night.I cann't tolerat this kind of act. I belive a marrid man shouldn't act like this.I have decided to divorce him.Pease advice.

2006-10-14 21:07:17 · 21 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 5 years and this is an ongoing problem.Last year we had sex 3 times each session was 2-5 mins long. Now this year is only twice.He says he can't get his mind off work to get into and find sex gross.Though he masterbates daily.I have gone through this for years and am at my piont I want to leave.He said he knows he has a problem but won't seek help even though it is riuning are relationship.Oral sex is non existant he never lets me do it him.I don't know what to do.I want to leave but feel i am being unfair.After 4 yrs I have no more tears to cry.

2006-10-14 21:06:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-14 21:06:34 · 5 answers · asked by hearty 1 in Singles & Dating

When you've taken away lust, neurotic dependency, adoration (e.g. religious 'love'), and passing fancies what do you have left?

It would be nice if you could say whether you are speaking from direct experience or simply speculating. Sorry but speculation doesn't really count. It would also be nice if you could say how you were sure that what you had was 'love' and not some other condition.

2006-10-14 21:06:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a one-night stand with this guy a week ago. I am interested in having a proper relationship with him. But I don't know how he feels about me.
Just now, he IM-ed me for a date this friday. Is he interested in me or simply hoping for sex?

2006-10-14 21:04:57 · 21 answers · asked by gummy 3 in Singles & Dating

i need youto gudje between us my any my love
she told me not to told some person lets call him mr (x) that i know her
then i meet this person and he was asking me if i know her and i said no i never heard about her
he said that he is in love with her
i said ok i don't care cuz i don't know her
he told me that she told him that she was in love with me but she is his now
i told him i told you that i don't know her and don't care
__________
the probleme is she is know upset
she said that i offended her when i said i don't care about her
it's weird i don't know what to do
so plz
first
gudje who is fault is this
second
what i have to do while i'm in love with her and i love her so much
thanks 4 ur answers and ur time
peace all

2006-10-14 21:04:31 · 3 answers · asked by ashrf6581 4 in Singles & Dating

any expert in astrology????

2006-10-14 21:04:30 · 6 answers · asked by cdu 1 in Weddings

2006-10-14 21:04:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a problem with my dishwasher and had the repairman come fix it. To my surprise, he was a cute 30-something guy with a nice physique. Anyway, we exchanged eye contact, flirted a little and as he was describing the problem with a loose bolt in the dishwasher, he used his right index finger as an example of the bolt, used his left thumb and index finger to make a hole and stuck it in.

My jaw dropped. I blushed.

2006-10-14 21:02:25 · 9 answers · asked by mage m 1 in Singles & Dating

Would u flirt w/someone for a whole 4 month semester, if u werent interested in them in the romantic sense?

2006-10-14 21:02:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so im going out with 3 guys and #1 ive never meet #2 i dont like him #2 but he loves me its to easy 4 me he does anything and everything i ask its too much he kisses my *** #3 me and him r perfect but i never get to see him but when i do i feel like im in heaven WHAT DO I DO WHO DO I PICK PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!

2006-10-14 21:01:49 · 14 answers · asked by confused?helpplz 1 in Singles & Dating

Four months ago I discovered that my husband of five years had an affair. It crushed me. It was a total schock and I am still wondering why it happened. Since the discovery, he is a changed man. He is extremely attentive, very loving and considerate, and pretty much the dream husband. My problem is that I can't let the affair go. Everything reminds me of it. I wonder what went through his mind as he ventured out to act out his deceit. Not only once, but three differnent times. We have two beautiful daughters together. We went to the zoo today and the road signs on the way home reminded me of a time that he had met up with his mistress in the same area the zoo is located. It sent me back to the pain and anger I felt four months ago when I first discovered the affair. I am a forgiving person, but I seem to be obsessing over this one. I need an outsider point of view.

2006-10-14 20:58:26 · 25 answers · asked by LadyLee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what can i doo about this???? I cant get him to go very long at all... anyone have this prob' too?

2006-10-14 20:57:43 · 10 answers · asked by ohio_gurl042 4 in Other - Family & Relationships