why cant they be simple things to hundle?
2006-10-14 21:18:23 · 16 answers · asked by daflex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've only been in 1 relationship it was for 4 months we were mates before and I think thats y some relationships can be hard if you were mates first but some can be really brilliant and easy it's all to do with the solemate belief thing. If you don't believe in solemates soz but some people do. I'm in love with a boy at this very moment but he likes me as just a mate so I have togo with that as I said earlier it makes it hard if u were mates first even though me and this boy weren't that closer mates I helped him get over his old girlfriend when they split up. It's all about the rite person to make relationships easy.
You have to be able to be yourself around them and have fun with them. But you have to stay sensible no under age stuff, don't give into pere pressure from your mates to do stuff with your loved 1 just get on with it at your own pace talk to your mates and the one your dating if your getting annoyed with people asking you about the relationship your in, it should be beautiful not just something you do cause others do it. JUST ENJOY THE REALTION SHIP AND IT SHOULD LAST WITH HARDLY ANY EFFORT AT ALL.
2006-10-14 22:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by elizacooper1993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships do make you wonder why you bother....sometimes they are just not worth it or they make you feel that way.They are hard work.Relationships are complicated because there is more than one person involved. Conflicting opinions ect as hard as it seems you just need to agree to disagree sometimes.Then you can always reach a compromise. And yes if you dont have skills to deal with the relationship then they are hard to handle...I sugest you always think things through.Keep an open mind and try to understand in your own way how to make your relationship work.
2006-10-14 21:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships make our world what it is today, however we remain ignorant of the primitive origins of our thoughts, beliefs and desires. So when two people in a relationship do not keep their joint unconciousnessess in check it can become messy!
2006-10-15 00:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by A1bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are what we make them. our individuality and uniqueness is what the cause of that but how content are you on giving up that. I say keep em complicated. Its fun that way anyway.
2006-10-14 22:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by Adam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think about it a relationship is a unit...one. Two into one doesn't go. It takes alot of work, love, commitment, and compromise.
2006-10-14 21:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if they were always easy we wouldn't appreciate them, after all, the best thing about havin a fight is the makin up after.xxx
2006-10-15 00:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by punkydorieme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe that before fonding the right person or blaming people for whatever, lets first look inside ourselves, lets have a good relation with the real person inside us,
in order to have good relation with others, we first have to be in good relation with ourselves, meaning not to be the person we are meant to be, meaning not to do the things that we hate and know we will regret.
we need to know what we want....
2006-10-14 21:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by alien0n05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because (at least in the heterosexual world) men are from Mars and women are from Venus.
2006-10-14 21:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by diana - b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people are complicated and we are not all identical twins.
2006-10-14 21:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by EC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We need to find the right person first to cuddle ... but it would eventually grow if we live with mainstream society.
2006-10-14 21:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by Vig 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋