okay so im going out with 3 guys and #1 ive never meet #2 i dont like him #2 but he loves me its to easy 4 me he does anything and everything i ask its too much he kisses my *** #3 me and him r perfect but i never get to see him but when i do i feel like im in heaven WHAT DO I DO WHO DO I PICK PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!
2006-10-14 21:01:49 · 14 answers · asked by confused?helpplz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pick the one you love. If that doesnt work out...you can always say at least you tried.
Dont you wish you could predict the future?
2006-10-14 21:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, you are obviously young and on the fun run! Yeehaw. I had 6 steady boyfriends when I was 23-27 years old. I didn't sleep with any of them. I let them wonder about me. They could see I was pretty and the one who stuck it out, knowing I had other suitors is the one I ended up finally marrying. The one you have never met, let it go as just friendship until you meet him, face to face. You never know, he may decide that he doesn't like you either. Then again, you two may hit it off. Then decide.
#2, whom you don't want an intimate relationship with needs to be let down gently. Tell him I just want to be your friend. Then again, I gave in to the one that was last on my list and he ended up being the one. I found out he had...uhm....YEAH! Knew how to use it too. Never take anything at face value. Follow what you know, not what you think or imagine. Know what I mean?
#3 will only come around completely, if he likes you as much as you do him and if he sees that you have other options. He needs to see that you are not sitting around every night waiting for him to call. He sounds as if he may have other options too. Be a busy lady and you will not believe the results. Don't sit and wait for him. Hey, it worked for me.
Never discard your options at first glance. Give a chance. You never know what may bloom in the most unlikely places. Good luck honey. Sigh, you remind me of those days and how much fun it was dating those men. I was showered with gifts for years. They would not leave me alone and as long as I didn't sleep with them, they kept trying for years. They all became friends too. Isn't that funny? By the way, they are still my friends to this day because they always thought I was a good girl, not a whore because I wouldn't sleep with them. They respected me even when I finally did settle down. Stay single until you find out what you really want. It is fun and that is what being young is all about. Sow them oats Mama! ((((Sheri))))
2006-10-14 21:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 you never met... so that's 3-1= 2.... you don't like #2> that's 2-1=1.... #3 you like, but you never get to see him> that's 1-1=0.
2006-10-14 21:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Player. One, online dating isn't working for you. Two, you love the pushover types don't you? Why would you choose a slave? Three, it's obviously that guy. Make some time for him by dumping the first two
2006-10-14 21:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by Fia 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
how are you going out with a guy you never met?
go with the one that is kissing your ***, the other one will just hurt you and you can't see him very much anyway.
2006-10-14 21:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by AveGirl 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
stay with #2 cos you'll be wasting your time on #3 you won't be seeing him much...hope goes well
2006-10-14 21:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by pisceslady a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
birth control
2006-10-14 21:03:56 · answer #7 · answered by Adri 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its better to be with someone who loves u than a person who doesnt have time for u...
2006-10-14 21:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by archie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3! I had a situation with a guy like your number 2...dump him NOW! if you end it now, you won't end up with a stalker...long story.
2006-10-14 21:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by astronomychica 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
duh. pic number three. hello? even if you dont like number two, that's no reason to be a freeloader and every reason to leave him behind. and number one is probably not gonna be as perfect as number three. havent you ever heard of monogamy!?
2006-10-14 21:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by need 2 get a grip 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋