Ok...ANdrea and Helen and I were like Best friends for 4 years. Then lests bring the "GANG of GUYS" in to the story. ANdrea and Helen were kinda close to them. But not me...I dodnt like 'em. they neva knew tat and call all 3 of us to hang. I went rarley but A and H went quiet often. the gang og guys understood that i wsnt TAHT close to 'em so dey stopped CALLING me. then they realize (thanks to helen) that i hate 'em. that made 'em mad. so starting Helen...they brain washed her to be with 'em and not me. they, with helen's help, did the same to andrea. omg...v.bad. i relly didnt (or tried not to) care. well...i accepted the fact that they were too easy to be influenced. ok...then the gang of guys have a huge fight it seems. since i used to be a good advice giver and very sensible, helen and andrea asked the gang of guys to ask me for help. well they did. i got so mad that helen and andrea made them ask me. i screamed to them asking them to go get someone else casue i was mad. am i rng?
2006-10-14 21:24:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
didnt even read it, cos ur wrongggg ha!
2006-10-14 21:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sooner or later you will have to finish off this enmity which is your doing as you told Helen you hated the guys. There is something called ARMED NEUTRALITY and that is what you should aim for if you want to keep your friendship with Helen and Andrea and at the same time not being fighting the guys like this. As they accepted you as the mediator in their fight they already have taken the first step.
2006-10-14 21:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by EC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, personally I think that was a little too far but hey the girls had no right!
You find who your true friends are in these cases... and Helen and Andrea don't seem to be true.... Sorry to show you that.
Good Luck! And keep smiling- you're worth more.
2006-10-14 21:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by x_Super_Social_Superstar_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i feel is ..its ur ego which is saying that ur Friends are being taken away from u we usually feel the same way when our closed ones get away from us ...friendship is something which cant be broken ..instead u get close only with ur Friends not the others u dont like ...but dont make them feel as if u dont like then ..u speak with Helen and Andrea and patch up !!! all the very best !!!!!!!!
2006-10-14 21:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by fairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not wrong. Its pretty pathetic that they even had the nerve to call you for help after treating you so crappy. Maybe you should give them some advice about being decent people, and while your at it let them know that when you create bad karma it comes back to get you.
2006-10-14 21:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! Andrea and Helen weren't really your friends, it sounds like! they didn't value their friendship with you enough to try to at least preserve it when another group came along. course you're not wrong!
2006-10-14 21:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by High On Life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know they abused your trust hun and trust is something that has to be earned and maybe you should let them all know that. I don't blame you for feeling that way. You say you used to be sensible and a good advise giver you proberly still are just to those who deserve it
2006-10-14 21:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by omissy2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too high strung. And plz lurn 2 rite gud. U g0t a spll cekr.
2006-10-14 21:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by luosechi 駱士基 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you have done is give them a taste of their own medicine.
They might organize themselves to offer you an apology, or they might stay well away from you.
2006-10-14 21:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not at all wrong. its better to opt for your own interests sometimes than getting into false friendship. stick to where you are. this proves you are dignified, possess personality and really sensible.
hats off to you sexc!
i like u.
can u mail me at sweetdia_15@redifmail.com??
2006-10-14 22:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right. if you dont like them, dont let them come close to you. they can find advice elsewhere.
2006-10-14 21:28:41 · answer #11 · answered by alien0n05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋