what can i doo about this???? I cant get him to go very long at all... anyone have this prob' too?
2006-10-14 20:57:43 · 10 answers · asked by ohio_gurl042 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Does he get aroused quickly after his first orgasm? It is normal I think, but I am a woman, for him to release too soon sometimes. But you should be able to arouse him again rather quickly and the second time he will last longer. Practice on what he likes and do it to make him hard again.
2006-10-14 21:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help him!
Techniques to help with PE!
Squeeze Technique:
To make this technique work, you need to be prepared to set aside private and uninterrupted time three times a week. Don't be tempted to give up if after a few tries nothing seems to be changing. It can take a while to get the hang of it!
· The place to squeeze is just below the glands, the rounded part at the top of the penis. If you have a foreskin, pull it back so the glands is uncovered.
· Stroke and caress your whole genital area. This consists of the glands, the shaft of the penis, the testicles or balls, the area behind the balls, which is called the perineum, and the anal rim. 5 parts altogether.
· Practice touching and pleasuring all these parts so you are very aware of how each part feels in the stages of arousal before you are going to come.
· Now increase your pleasure to a high state of arousal, and when you reach the point when you think you will come, squeeze the penis hard and hold it for 20 to 30 seconds. The erection may go down, but you can get it back. If you were too late with your squeeze, try again later and squeeze a little earlier in your arousal.
· Repeat this three times before allowing yourself to ***.
Do this three times a week and you will begin to notice an improvement in your ability to control your ejaculation?
Start Stop Technnique:
Overcoming Premature Ejaculation takes time and effort, but should be almost entirely successful. PE is usually caused by anxiety and lack of attention to what the penis needs. Often there are other worries too, about pleasing the partner, being discovered and feeling embarrassed, or ashamed. The stop start Technique below can be big help, Try it.
· Find time to practice, Set aside three 20-minute slots each week, and make sure you can be alone and uninterrupted.
· First use your favorite technique and begin to masturbate very slowly, noticing carefully the sensations you get in your penis during the increasing levels of arousal before ejaculation.
· At the point just before you would come, stop touching and wait for the intense arousal to go down. You may lose the erection, but you will get it back. If you were too late stopping, and came, try again later, and stop a little earlier in the arousal.
· Repeat this three times, trying to work up to the twenty minutes. After the third time you can allow yourself to ***.
Do this three times a week, and after three weeks you should notice an improvement. You can also do this during sex, when you get the urge to *** pull out, let the urge subside for a few seconds, Switch positions or stimulate her manually during this time and then continue.
2006-10-15 05:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a longer lasting man
2006-10-15 04:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Vern M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try giving him oral s3x b4 have intercourse also have s3x more often so he can get use to it u should also try and be open with him or make it competitive bet him u can make him cumm b4 he can make u cumm when hes about to cumm tell him to wait a lil bit longer usually the first one is kind of fast the the second should be longer also maybe try a different position good luck
2006-10-15 04:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex more often or get a cream to dull sensation so he will last longer
2006-10-15 05:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a vibrator. bring it in to the bedroom with you. let him get you off using it then he can get of after his way. you can also ry for play get him off first cuddle for a bit then try it again he should be able to last longer.
2006-10-15 04:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of creams and topical lotions for him to use that would de-sensitise him and help him to last longer. Try looking for some. http://www.adameve.com/slippery-sensations/ss_stay-hard-c-62.aspx
2006-10-15 04:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by coken151 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont have that problem..try keeping him stimulated..talk dirty,seriously,like out of nowhere. It will surprise him.
2006-10-15 04:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by yahooaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,... I don't have that problem, yet.
How about Viagra? Go with him to his doctor and ask for that.
2006-10-15 04:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him rest and kiss and caress him during his rest to wake him up again. ;)
2006-10-15 04:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋