I am in love with this girl who is in a different city than me. I usually call her once every night. She knows I love her more than anyone else.
However we have not talked in a week now. She does not pick up. She is probably mad at me for something but does not say.
I know for a fact that if I let this phase pass by, she will start talking to me again.
My question is:
How do I control myself from not calling her a lot?
In a situation like this, it feels like I should call her more than before because I miss her and just wanna talk with her but I know if I wil call her more, that will drive her away further.
So give me some tips on controlling myself.
Also what should I say in the voicemail that will melt her heart and make her feel like answering the phone?
I know she listens to my voicemails but I feel like I said everything there is to say and any ideas on cool things to say to makeup would be hepful.
Thanks smart yahoo latenighters!
2006-10-14 21:14:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call another person... example ur friend... or make ur self busy
2006-10-14 21:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got my wife by respecting her space giving her time for herself. I understand where you are at but you need to not be so available and predictable, find some hobby that will take your mind away, take the batteries out of the phone super glue the send button and phones to the receiver, Just do Not call her give her some space, Period
2006-10-15 04:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girls are really wierd people .. haha ... umm... i dont know why should would be mad at u for a week... thats a long time .. well if she loved u its a long time .. if i didnt answer to someone it would be because i was annoyed .... didnt want to talk to them.. or just didnt know how to tell them something i really wanted to .. u never know about girls .. we are all different .. and yeah its hard ..it could even just be that time of the month.. man it sucks
2006-10-15 04:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by InSaNe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with your friends more often but keep your cell phone on nd handy. She may have been busy. but remember she lives in a different city than you so you won't be able to know what she does, she could hve been lying to you
2006-10-15 04:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay online more, go to friends places, unplug your phone. If you call her too much then she will get annoyed or maybe scared. That;s why she wont pick up. Do something to fill up your time. You could write her letters awsell (you can write them, doesnt mean you have to send them) that could help
2006-10-15 04:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Kiss_Kris_xo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need a hobby. i wish I could be more helpful, but I am in a similar situation. Tell us how it goes.
2006-10-15 04:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen pal.someone else is laying heavy pipe to her, and maybe even doing her in the ******, so give it up and find a new girl.
2006-10-15 04:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by erick j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gain more phonepal......
your wasting your time to do the thing,,but you know that the girl doesnt like you....try to look someone.
i think you can get much better
2006-10-15 04:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by khen cute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T CALL HER EVERY NIGHT, CALL HER MAY BE WEEK LATER, SHE MAY BE EAGER TO TALK TO U . !!! THAT'S WHAT GIRLS ARE ALL ABOUT. NO BODY CAN MEASURE THE DEPTH OF THEIR HEARTS. !!!
2006-10-15 04:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
everything will work its self out dont worry
2006-10-15 04:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋