Family & Relationships - 14 October 2006

A couple who I have known for several years, came to town. We had a big relative get-together. When I asked how long they had been together, they said 11 yrs., although they are only 26 yrs old. When I asked when they were going to tie the knot and have kids, the guy started rambling about how he wanted things to be this way and that way, and the girl was just gvery quiet. I felt bad that I mentioned it, as I knew that it was he that was dragging his feet. What is different than what they are doing now, living together? Do you think she is wasting her time, why do guys do this to girls when they have been together so long? They know they don't want to get married, it is just an excuse. I could tell. Is it fair? I know of another case just like this one too... is it really not the right time, or just don't want to get married??? The guy I mean, why? My husband and I knew each othe 6 months, but I am sure if I had agreed to just live with him, we would not possibly not be married today

2006-10-14 20:35:47 · 11 answers · asked by shardf 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-14 20:33:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The other night while on a date with a girl i have been seeing for a few weeks now my ex gf happened to come into the bar we were at. The two had never met before, as I saw no reason for them to. Me and my ex ended our relationship a year ago when I caught her cheating on me, but have had contact here and there over the phone mostly, nothing intimate. I introduced the two of them by first name but didnt tell my new love interest that she had actually met my ex girlfriend that night. I plan on telling her soon, but I didnt want her to feel like I had brought her there to make my ex jealous or anything like that. Should I have said something sooner? Do you think my new gf will be angry when she finds out I didnt tell her that the girl she met was my ex?

2006-10-14 20:32:13 · 14 answers · asked by Just your average guy 2 in Singles & Dating

i think it would be cool if i had 3 boys and named them primo, secondo, and renzo. is taht stupid or is it cool?

2006-10-14 20:31:41 · 12 answers · asked by j rock 4 in Family

For piercings and tattooes, such as the lovely labret piercing I had done just yesterday. I say he is on crack..What do you think I should get pierced next?

2006-10-14 20:29:43 · 19 answers · asked by marcia_mahoya 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 20:29:28 · 5 answers · asked by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

im having problems getting over my ex still and its been about 3 months since she broke up with me

how do i get over her

2006-10-14 20:29:03 · 10 answers · asked by musicfreek1989 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 20:28:31 · 8 answers · asked by Polash 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i wanna see how i look in the eyes of the world

2006-10-14 20:28:22 · 4 answers · asked by sham 1 in Singles & Dating

I went on a date today as well as tonight. He took me to the movies and dinner. The dinner was at Taco Bell. Which was disgusting. But, that is not the issue. After the move and dinner, we went to a Jewish Organization, and when we got there, he ditched me to talk to his friends. After an hour or so, he came up to me and said he had to go because he got into a fight or something. He asked me if I wanted a ride home I denied because I wanted to stay at the party. But, I'm angry because number one he took me to Taco Bell for our date, number two he ditched me at the party, number three he left me there because he got into a fist fight. My mom told me to never see him or talk to him again. I feel angry. I do not think I'll ever see him or speak to him again even if he apolizes. Do I have a right to feel angry? Or, I'm I being overly senstive about this situation? By the way, I'm 21 and he is 24.

2006-10-14 20:25:25 · 27 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 20:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

do you object to dating a man during your menstrual period?

2006-10-14 20:25:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-gf is always so rude and wants attention by her rude remarks, i usually just ignore, but she just doesnt stop going on with swear words! I broke up with her for that reason because she's such a stuck up! Well the other day i had amazing come-backs which put her down. She just frowned and told her friend to slap me for her, which she didnt. She's too scared to do it herself! One day she would. When she does, is it OK to counteract her slap and punch/push her hand away and just push her away?

2006-10-14 20:22:23 · 22 answers · asked by No Name 1 in Friends

I love my wife and nothing is gonna change this,but I need diversity.

2006-10-14 20:21:55 · 14 answers · asked by alternative4 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

But i dont know what to do. Seems like i've already done everything and nothing new is springin to my mind
any suggestions?

2006-10-14 20:20:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my son. he is in his 30's. I dont always agree with his decisions and tell him. When he has argued with his girlfriend and I think he is being unfair, he gets really angry when I say I think he was a bit harsh. Says I continually bad mouth him. I really cannot condone bad behaviour and wont become a "yes mom". Is that a bad thing? He isnt talking to me now. I wont apologise for "what"?

2006-10-14 20:20:46 · 3 answers · asked by Vonnie S 4 in Family

ok ,,i work hard ,,i put in my 45 hours or more every week,,,,i cant do one night ,,just hangin whit the boys...if im not sleepy,,sh** i can just be me ,,now im very movated,,an i mean im always thinkin ,,,what would you do if you were uncontearble,,,,,?i want out this shi* ,,tell me what would you do?

2006-10-14 20:19:08 · 6 answers · asked by treyshowmeet 1 in Singles & Dating

And why do they think they deserve to be treated like little princesses just because they look hot? Hot chicks in SoCal are literally a dime a dozen.

2006-10-14 20:18:06 · 13 answers · asked by Good Times, Happy Times... 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 20:17:55 · 7 answers · asked by nicole_reico 1 in Friends

we have been going out for almost a mouth,but i seem to always make an efort,i call him and visit him.
on weekends i dont even know where he goes,we never go out.
am thinking of living him.
what do you think? please help me?

2006-10-14 20:17:04 · 24 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

mu "best friens" always ditches me after class and last year she didnt do this but she has ever since the new gurl came and she says shes not ditching me she just doesnt wanna wait 4 me and she spends more time w/ her bf than /w me and now sh acts so snobby around me cause she made the cheerleading squad she also asks if we can be best friends when nobody is around.Help me give me some advice

2006-10-14 20:16:31 · 9 answers · asked by chilipeppa94 2 in Friends

I've been in a hidden realtionship for over a year (and i saw hidden because no one knew we were together cuz i was never sure if he was the person i wanted to be with). because we were hidding our realtionship we oviously had to lie and hide when we saw each other. 90% of the time we spent alone together was inside a car at night. almost all those times we ended up doing something sexual, mostly having oral sex. Many times i didnt want to do it but i always felt that i owed him because i was making him keep our relationship secret. When i will tell him that i didnt want to do anything he will always get mad and say that i was rejecting him and he would make me feel bad and i will give in. Many times i would feel molested because i will tell him to stop touching me but he will ignore me and contiunue. It came to a point where i even felt that he was manipulating me to make out with him when i didnt want to. almost always i would go home & cry. Im i overreacting?

2006-10-14 20:16:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-14 20:15:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How to solve this problem
- cant concentrate on my studying ( exam now )
- not talking wif my bestfriend in 2 weeks now ( so sad )
- when i studying .. sometimes i 'ill think about my bestfriend
- help please

2006-10-14 20:14:08 · 8 answers · asked by Best Friend True Love 1 in Friends

if i travel to india to marry my india native boyfriend,will i lose my u.s. citizenship,and never be able to come back to the u.s.?

2006-10-14 20:13:54 · 24 answers · asked by curious1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married 5 years and hate myself and anything to do with my body image. I just dont believe it if my husband says he loves me when I feel like a disgusting pig while we are intimate... (I was 130lbs, athletic, and 5'7" now I am over 200lbs)

2006-10-14 20:13:08 · 21 answers · asked by Jessy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, what are your reasons?

2006-10-14 20:12:07 · 14 answers · asked by mage m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-14 20:11:46 · 9 answers · asked by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

We've only been married a year so I'm still learning what she likes.

2006-10-14 20:10:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my girl friend.......we were out with her boyfriend and me....and at the end of the date the bill came to about £60...and he offered to pay the bill...and then I offered him half the bill (£30)...and he didnt want it...and then she said : I'll have it !!!!.......and then she bagged the £30....I dont care about £30.....but why did she do that...? I thought it was a bit funny , what do you think?

2006-10-14 20:10:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends