Should i b mad?

Question

mu "best friens" always ditches me after class and last year she didnt do this but she has ever since the new gurl came and she says shes not ditching me she just doesnt wanna wait 4 me and she spends more time w/ her bf than /w me and now sh acts so snobby around me cause she made the cheerleading squad she also asks if we can be best friends when nobody is around.Help me give me some advice

CAMELS stop it your so not funny so grow up!

Answer 1

good advice: learn some proper english so u can communicate with people better!

Answer 2

that can happen, that's what happened to a girl that my friends and I eat lunch with. She became so obsessed with her boyfriend, that she would call him at break and lunch, after school, at night, all the time...it was really annoying. We all had enough of it and one of the girls decided to take the phone from the other girl and tell her boyfriend that she was spending time with her friends.
The boyfriend broke up with the girl a week later because she was being too obsessive.
Now, back to your friend problem, tell her. If she's your friend, tell her. Tell her how you feel. It may not always work, but you never know until you try.
Remember, she's the one who is trying to get you to bow down to her level. My advice next time she tries to insult you, stick your elbow up and say "talk to the elbow because it's not worth extending the arm" Childish yes, but it shuts them down faster than power going out in a lightning storm.

and yes, you have every right to be mad. she's a shallow girl who's heading for trouble.

Answer 3

Y B Mad?

Just because You have a natural sense that You don't deserve to be treated that way?

Your friend sounds Fickle,Inconsiderate,Deceptive,Selfish,Manipulative.

Also sounds like she does not have the maturity or social skills to be able to balance her associations and treat people fairly in giving them her attention .

I beleive ANYBODY deserves better treatment than the way she's acting towards You..

There's No Need or Use in what amounts to playing her game.

No sense in being Rude or Mean or Vengeful towards her,either.
You DON'T want to make her your Enemy.

But do You really want her as a "Friend"?

Her Behaviour is NOTHING about YOU.

It's all about HER,,,
her Choices of how she wants to act & treat others,,,
how SHE wants to present herself.

I Know that it hurts to lose a friend.
You lost your friend a lot longer ago than You may realize.

Who we Like,who we Love is NEVER anything about THEM.
Even if it doesn't SEEM that way.

It's always about US.

Nobody can make anyone else Like them,or Love them.

If that wasn't TRUE,,when somebody stopped liking us,,we could Just make them start liking us again.
there's be no break-ups,no divorces,no ends of friendships.

You,Me,Your Old Friend,and Everybody.....we will CHANGE all through our life.
Sometimes a little,,sometimes a lot.

A Casual Friend as THEY change will eventually lose interest in You,,no matter what.

I 'spose what You could call a REAL Friend,or TRUE Friend will Change Too.

But their sincerity will allow them to Keep the friendship thru time.
Not just through Their own changes,,
but also thru the changes of their Friends.

People can certainly grow farther apart,,or closer,,going forward thru time.

But on SOME LEVEL,,even when grown apart,,,A Friend remains a Friend.

And Friends just DONT treat Friends the way that girl has treated you.

It's not cuz she dont know better, it's cuz she doesn't Care.
The Value she places on You simply isn't high enough to make her at least be Considerate of you.

Your old friend obviously does not place a high enough value on the Good & Appealing Things about YOU,
to be worth the effort to HER to maintain y'all's friendship.


Does SHE set Your WORTH??
Nope.
Only YOU DO.

Be the best YOU,..that YOU can be.
Somebody will Notice,,,and they will GREATLY Value that.

Not because of YOU,,,but because of what THEY Value.

Then,,You will have made a Friend.

Be Good and Kind and Fun and Considerate,,and that will appeal to People who DO Value those things.

It's a sad fact of life---sometimes we get left behind, and sometimes we find that we must leave others behind.
It's never Fun or Easy.

Thing to ALWAYS remember,,Be the best YOU--work to develop Your Own Natural Self,,the good traits,your character.

NEVER compromise yourself.
Never Try or Act or Change just to Attract somebody because YOU like THEM.
'Cuz if You DO,,,and it "works" ...they still dont like YOU,,,they only like the Image you created to attract them.
Make Sense?

They'll Like You as You Are,,,or they wont.
And You need to understand how that works,,and accept it for what it really is.

Nothing personal against YOU,,,,,it's how THEY are,,what they value.

I got a hunch You'll be FINE and have manyGood & Dear Friends.
..........................................
You can learn a lesson in a all this from your old friend.

As You live Your life,,You're gonna meet new people,,make new friends,,,Hook-Up with a Guy who is going to get a lot of your time and attention

How are YOU gonna juggle all that?
How are YOU going to treat people?
Your "old friends" as ya make new ones?
Maybe even an Old or CURRENT Boyfriend,,,when you meet a new guy that ya like better??
,,,,That's Difficult,,,and We All face that situation a few times.

And,,even Your FAMILY and Loved ones.
They always seem to get shortchanged in a way,,as we make friends,hang out,run around,party,,whatever,,,and Grow Up,,and Away.
Your time and attention is Important to Them too,,probably Most of anyone.

TRUTH about All of that?
You CANT,,It's Impossible.
Ya Cant be in 2 or 50 places at same time.

The Best You can do is to remember how your old girl friend treated You & how it made you feel.
f she'd simply been Frank,Clear,and Honest with You,,,,shown some consideration for Your feelings instead of JUST HER Own desires...
it woulda been LOTS better for You and easier to deal with/accept.

I dunno if anybody can say exactly what To DO.
But if ya just remeber to stop for a minute and CARE..
Care about YOU & how You wanna be & present yourself,
and care about THEM,,,
Something will come to You,,,You'll have Your own answer.

Maybe it's as simple as the old,,"treat Others the way YOU want to be treated..."

Not just an old saying,,it's really pretty good advice & hard to go wrong.

But No matter WHAT...
DONT B MAD!!!

Life is Tooooooo Loooooooooooooooooooooong to be Mad,
And Tooo Good.

Best Wishes,,I hope it all works out nice for You

Answer 4

she likes you
just feels some pressure
to be a high class britches
when other people are around
perhaps you can chat with her on the phone one night a week
no harm in keeping the communication open.

Answer 5

i have heard this case before. no u shouldnt be mad, but maybe she doing that because you keep bugging. give her some time and space then go to her and try to talk to her in PRIVATE.

then again she could have just found a new bestfriend. good luck though.

Answer 6

of course you should be mad, and to get cheered up you should give me best answer

Answer 7

i will say in my heart whatever .. and will find better friends ..

Answer 8

Find a new friend....

Answer 9

hobbies are fun.