we have been going out for almost a mouth,but i seem to always make an efort,i call him and visit him.
on weekends i dont even know where he goes,we never go out.
am thinking of living him.
what do you think? please help me?
2006-10-14 20:17:04 · 24 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've been going out for a "mouth" ... how long is a mouth, twice as long as a tongue?
2006-10-14 20:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him abt it? Judging from your response, i'm guessing that you have talked to him abt it....many times.
But if you haven't, that is the very first thing you should do. Make it clear to him that it takes 2 to tango in this relationship.
If this still persists, then he has made a choice. Chances are, you're not what he's really looking for. The rest is now up to you. If you think that you still "love" him and can't bear to leave him, well....try looking deeper to see if this is really "love" or just plain infactuation. I mean, can you love someone that can't give you what you want?
If all else fails then i'd say leave the guy. Men aren't a scarse resource. There're plenty of us. You can learn from your experience and not choose the same kinda guy the next time.
Hope this helps. Good Luck :D
2006-10-14 20:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Gallagher_98 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he should be paying attention to you and it looks like he's not ready for a relationship with anyone. Tell him that the reason you see this is'nt going to work between you guys is because BOTH of you (together) are'nt doing the effort to make it work. Hope everything goes well. God Bless.
2006-10-14 20:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by miss pochacco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him chase you.
It would help if you had some confidence in yourself.
There is enough men out there that you shouldn't have to put up with a bunch of crap. If he doesn't seem to be returning the attention, then maybe you need to start looking else where.
2006-10-14 20:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by JB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A WHOLE MONTH! WOW! Sorry- but this isn't long enough to know anybody. If someone is interested, they'll be around or make themselves available. Doesn't sound like he's doing that!
2006-10-14 20:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes girl leave him,,, Why give so much effort, when you get nothing in return..it's just not right..You need some one who will treat you equal & wont do it because he has to, but because he cares enough to do it...You'll find the one, just don't waste your time on the bad one...Good luck =]
2006-10-14 20:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by Savanna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Play the field - it does not sound like he wants a commitment.
Also it's only been less than one month
2006-10-14 20:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you and dud ant on the same page...i no you feel me ,,,now you gone hate mfor this ,,,,,HE ANT FEELIN YOU ,,,ok,,im sorry,,,i got too keep it real .....you sound nice [u no i check u out ],,look find you a freind boy or let me say a man ,,,,,,sex is only for short time ,,,an you ,,mite love that ,,,but i promise you ,,,you can get that any where,,,,stop;;;chasein him ,,its more fish,,,an you know this ..........hey email me
2006-10-14 20:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by treyshowmeet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes leave him if you feel that he isnt putting much effort in the relationship you need to think of yourself and put yourself first
2006-10-14 20:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by shasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel u should live him as life goes on.
2006-10-14 20:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by Aaliya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋