My ex-gf is always so rude and wants attention by her rude remarks, i usually just ignore, but she just doesnt stop going on with swear words! I broke up with her for that reason because she's such a stuck up! Well the other day i had amazing come-backs which put her down. She just frowned and told her friend to slap me for her, which she didnt. She's too scared to do it herself! One day she would. When she does, is it OK to counteract her slap and punch/push her hand away and just push her away?
2006-10-14 20:22:23 · 22 answers · asked by No Name 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm 15 by the way. She's 15 too but im older than her. I have to see her every weekend because her best friend is my best friend, whom which i introduced her to! All she does is look for trouble! We're not even friends!
2006-10-14 20:32:27 · update #1
well, it's basically wrong to hit a girl, but you could push her hand away and just tell her to f*ck off b*tch, i mean, you're not together, so she has no reason to even be talkin to you.
2006-10-14 20:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by hex 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alright, here's how I look at it...
She may be a...female dog. She may be really irritating, insulting, rude, and inappropriate. She may be freaking annoying, but is a slap really going to hurt you? No, it might sting for a minute, but it is just another annoyance. So here is what you will do by pushing her, pushing/punching her hand, or whatever you'd like to do:
1. You will prove that she really does get to you, and you can't stand up like a man does and take a petty slap to your face. Like I said before, its not going to hurt you, so there is NO point in responding by pushing her, even if it is harmless.
2. You will show her that you cannot be trusted to be a man, and she will likely be afraid of you. This might be what you're after, but the shame is on you. It is simply shameful for you to think that pushing her would make you better. You are a man! No matter what, you should never push her, slap her, punch her, or whatever, simply because she is a...female dog.
Here's what you should do. If she slaps you, look at her and turn your other cheek to her, like you're offering her the chance to slap your other cheek too. DON'T do this mockingly - do like you are really just giving her your other cheek, and make it obvious. She will either,
1. See how you are unaffected by her slap, and realize that you are respectable and that little things like that don't bother you. Or,
2. Slap your other cheek. If she does slap the other cheek she you need to simply act like the deed has been done and you are satisfied that it is over. Just act like it doesn't bother her, and she will probably begin to think like in senario 1.
2006-10-15 03:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by easethan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is always looking for attention just block the slap. Anything further will have you arrested. They always believe the woman no matter what the circumstances when there is hitting involved. Is she worth having a police record and a court date for? I wouldn't think so. Avoid her like the plague. She sounds like a biatch who is going to get you in trouble.
2006-10-15 03:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by brat789456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any of her friends really do that for her are stupid. When her friends stand infront of you just be careful, u might want to duck that slap or counter it but blocking. But hitting heer doesn't going to make her wake up thus I feel don't go near her. She's mental!
2006-10-15 03:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sob Sob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not ok, to hit a girl, or shove them. It is ok to block her slap, laugh and walk away, but do expect to be hit. Just dont talk to her anymore, tell her to grow up and get some manners.
2006-10-15 03:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by Don A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 wrongs dont make a right they make 2 wrongs
hope stupid would she feel if you were just the better person and walked away
if shes your ex why still hang around her
leave
good luck
2006-10-15 03:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes your Ex don't waste time bro....she's you EX for a reason. Unless you want her back avoid her like the plague.
2006-10-15 03:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you already broke up with her
it's fine to block her from slapping you
she got no right to lash out at an ex.
2006-10-15 03:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap the B I O T C H back!!!!
2006-10-15 03:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not ok to touch a girl, even if she starts it. Dont look at her n just walk away.
2006-10-15 03:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by rainbowbright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋