im having problems getting over my ex still and its been about 3 months since she broke up with me
how do i get over her
2006-10-14 20:29:03 · 10 answers · asked by musicfreek1989 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find something knew to occupy your days. Get a membership at your local gym. Start going to church if your not going. Get yourself a bicycle and start taking long bike rides. Go to a movie -- preferably a funny one. Learn how to play golf if you don't know how. Get yourself a puppy (be sure it's a breed that you'll enjoy having around). Take a class at your local college. Read a really good book. These are some ideas that entered my head -- hope they help -- good luck!
2006-10-14 20:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me about 3 months to get over an old boyfriend, and about 8 months to really recognize the situation and WANT to move on.
It's different for everyone. Some people take a year, some people take 4 months. The best thing to do is to go out with your friends and concentrate your energy on something (working out, studying, a hobby, etc.). If you bum around, it will be harder to get off your mind. The sooner and the more you go out, the easier things will gradually be. You will eventually start to notice moments where she's not on your mind, and you'll be wanting to put yourself out there again for a different person.
Everyone gets their heart broken, and everyone gets over it. It's life. It will happen again and again to you, and each time it will be easier. Good luck.
P.S. Losing her was not the end of the world. You will fall in love again, I promise.
2006-10-14 20:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's easy to say then done...
Try crying a couple time, and let it all out.. it might feel better... but then you should tell yourself to move on with your life.. Not easy task, but keep telling yourself you have to.. Go to the mall on Saturday, or do something you like... Don't stay home too much.. reason being that you want to see people walking on the street or mall and see that there's always someone else as nice or better than your ex. Of course, there are time you might get discourage and go home for not seeing any one special... Well, that's life, remember, you are not the only one in the world who's single or who's got dumped... Deal with it and move on..
As I said, it took me 5 years, but from time to time I still remember my ex.. but that's life.. but sometime it's a nice feeling to have and cherish.. and that's about all..
2006-10-14 20:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by tdbhc33 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm moving on from my previous failed relationship. I didn't see him for 2 months before and after he broke up with me. I think he's absence and how he broke my heart just pushed me to go on.
Now i'm looking out for guys that are better than him, widening my social circle. I also make an effort to concentrate more on my work, instead of wallowing in self-pity.
You should just live your life just as when your ex wasn't in your life, and better. I'm sure you can get over her. =)
2006-10-14 20:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by gummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you have heard this over and over again - but time time time. I am very close to my brother - he found out his girl friend of 2 years was cheating on him, and then she left him. He was devastated. He couldn't eat, sleep, and he'd cry alot. She even came running back to him a month later unsure about her decision, and they had a "one night stand". He thought they'd might get back together, but she went back to the "other guy". He had to go through a double-whammy because he was just starting to get used to life without her. He thought he was going to be miserable for the rest of his life, but he continued to go out and meet new people, and about 4 months later he met someone. They have been together for 6 months now and are in love. He never thinks about his ex now. My suggestion? Go out, date, date, date. Keep busy. You will hurt, but.... it will go away.
2006-10-14 20:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by psalm91 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think that the best thing to do is for u to start dating a lot of different girls untill u find the one like spending a lot of time with and that way u'll have less and less time to think about ur ex. Just try to always keep urself busy have a lot of friends that r girls go out and have and little by little u will stop thinkin bout her.
2006-10-14 20:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by MEri 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't try too hard. Just take one day at a time, keeping in mind that Ur Miss RIGHT is still out there.
2006-10-14 20:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by daisy770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get laid, i am sure she is probably taking a big one up the **** from a new bloke. dont be so emotional find laughter throughout the day, and get laid mate.
2006-10-14 20:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by erick j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have some fun and stop dwelling on whats gone
2006-10-14 20:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show up naked and bring beer.............lol
2006-10-14 20:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by shaffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋