Family & Relationships - 13 October 2006

my buddy is a geek who has a chance of getting married to a girl that already has two kids. he probably feels this is his one chance to get any girl. I tell him to run far , far away , but he is to stupid! can anyone give him advise? please!

2006-10-13 05:02:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My girlfriend broke up with me...she says she doesent love me anymore (after 2 yrs and 5 months) and her love is just gone...im 99.9% sure shes just saying this to try and get over me...i know she still loves me...and I WANT HER BACK!!! what are some things i could do to win her back...i broke her trust...thats why we broke up...plz dont be a jackass about this...i really do love this girl...

2006-10-13 05:02:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-13 05:01:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

would you rather be in a relationship with a secure obese person vs. insecure person w/ great body?
no offense intended for big or little people-don't get offended!!

2006-10-13 05:00:50 · 29 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

This is just in general question, wanting to know some guy opinions...:

A girl who you find not very attractive, but okay looking says to you "Do you think I'm pretty?"

Do you lie? or point out the things you like? or are you honest?

2006-10-13 05:00:08 · 32 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

He's from mexico, never had computers before... came from a ranch family. Just started learning yesterday in an adult night class. He is 18 and started learning english about 1 year ago. And he is one of those that likes to poke around things... and if he keeps poking he may do wrong things, get into porn, go into chats and lie to people....and email and fall into trouble. How can i teach him that internet is not a toy?

2006-10-13 04:59:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have a friend who is a guy who is shy and he so happens to realli like a friend of mine who likes him right back..the only problem is she is trying to play hard to get and he is too shy to make a move..so shud i try to wake them up to show them what they are missing out or should i let nature take its course?

2006-10-13 04:59:47 · 13 answers · asked by missthang 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 04:59:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are planing on getting engaged in december of this year so two months. i am going to plan a day to propose to her sooner than that. we wanted to get married in the summer of 2007. but things changed and moved it to 2008. becouse my parents thought it was to early and wanted us to get at least another year of college under the belt. so me and my girlfriend talked and wanted to just wait until the summer of 2009. we will both be 21 by then. so that gives us 2years and 6 month of engagement is that too long to be engaged. i also think that will give us more time to be with each other and learn each other better.

in her tradition we can live together until marrage.

2006-10-13 04:59:30 · 11 answers · asked by Through The Eyes Of The Dead 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know a Thomas Jorgensen who grew up in Coram NY???

2006-10-13 04:59:11 · 3 answers · asked by just lQQkin 4 in Friends

2006-10-13 04:58:53 · 10 answers · asked by Bob 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I spent a week with a guy whilst he was on holidays recently. In between his next visit we txted one another frequently and spoke a couple of times. We spent another night together. That was three weeks ago and since he left again we have exchanged over 40 texts and have spoken 5 or so times. He texts every day, calls when he says he is going to and has been very attentive. He lives about 20 hours from where I live. I am seeing him in 2 weeks time.. Where do you think this is able to go from here.. I dont want to ask him for anything definite.. but how do I approach the future? I think about him all the time.

2006-10-13 04:58:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

PS. She's quite fit - blonde, 38 years old.

2006-10-13 04:58:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello everyone,

I want to go with a periwinkle and platimum (ie. grey) color scheme and I'm going to have about 5 bridesmaids. I'd like them to choose a 2 piece to their liking, maybe the top being periwinkle, the bottom being grey, or vice versa. I want them to have fun with it. My only guidelines are that they must be from David's Bridal, they must be these colors, and the bottom must be a long dress. I think it'd be more interesting and would make for some very creative and fun pictures. I DON'T want them to look so uniformed. This will be a semi-formal wedding with about 100-150 people, and I already put into consideration that they'll have to be in order correctly at church so there's color variation in the outfits they chose. I also thought about giving them each the colors I want them to wear on top and on the bottom, but letting them pick the top style (ie. sleeveless, spaghetti strap, etc). What do you all think?

2006-10-13 04:58:15 · 39 answers · asked by A 2 in Weddings

If my final judgment says I have to pay any "past due, non-covered" medical expenses for my child, does this mean I have to pay for co-payments that the mother has paid since my child's birth?

2006-10-13 04:58:02 · 5 answers · asked by Lori W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

before me and my bf met...my friend liked him.
then me and bf got closer. and soon enough went on a date.
when she found out.
she was like watever but now that me and him have been together for 6 months shes flirting with him...and calling him, and he tells me and i ask her aout it and shes like..
yea i just call to see wat he's doing.
since we dont hang out that much anymore...(as in all three of us)
its weird what do i do?

2006-10-13 04:56:58 · 39 answers · asked by AWESOMA 1 in Friends

2006-10-13 04:56:10 · 2 answers · asked by a7xkindagirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my girlfriend - I am 23 and she is 27 and she is talking about settling down. She has already had the "wild time" in her life and I have only been with 4 girls including her. If I settle down I feel like I am missing out on something that she got to experience. What should I do? I guess I'm a little bitter that she slept with a lot of people and I haven't. Should I break up with her for awhile and get this out of my system (safe sex of course) and then get back with her when I am ready to settle down? I understand that if she is with someone else when I am done I will lose her.

2006-10-13 04:55:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and My bf have dated off and on for 5-6 years. We have had our rough times but are trying to work things out.
We broke up and he dated other people and for some reason I can not get over it. I have tried and tried. I woke up last night, cussing him for what he did and told him that he messed us up.
I don't know what to do. I lvoe him and I wanted to get married like in the next 2-3 years and a few days ago he told me he didnt want to be married or have kids for another 5 or 7.
Marriage is something I am ready , I think to do. I am just not sure if I should leave him and move on and find what I am looking for or wait it out for him.

2006-10-13 04:55:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not interested in meeting women in bars and clubs. That's where people often tell me. I also go to a small church where there are not many young people. I'm not going to church hop either in order to find someone. So any suggestions?

2006-10-13 04:55:33 · 12 answers · asked by PAboy05 1 in Singles & Dating

while Im on the subject of stuff like that, how long do you think your should date someone before its "safe" to move in together? how long before getting engaged?

2006-10-13 04:55:09 · 11 answers · asked by katie-bug 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-13 04:54:19 · 15 answers · asked by bahaa b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

therez a casanova type boy in my group.he stares at me me but his look is very different as he sees other girls.he cares for me and fights for me.he remembers each n everything of me but a moment he makes me feel special and other moment he treats me as i am none to him...on the whole i know he likes me but should i think its for lifetime as he knows i believe in long term relations!

2006-10-13 04:54:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..our pet dog Charlie. He's such a loveable scamp, four years old and full of fun. It was such a boring day, Kate had finished college and I had the day off work, so we took our hound out for a long walk and got lost in the woods and had a real intimate time. Don't you love getting close with your family?

2006-10-13 04:53:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Although we walk on egg shells when around her (she lives out of state), we try to keep a good relationship with her. She purposely tries to get everyone upset by saying and doing different things to "start something". We love her, but she hurts us and always want to fight. What to do, to keep a good relationship?

2006-10-13 04:53:44 · 5 answers · asked by tobeyp2005 3 in Family

So this morning there is this brat who keeps disturbing the girl I like. He disturbed her so much and I tried to keep silent for a few times. However, there was a point of time when I could not bear it anymore and these words just flow out of my mouth: "Shut up, I do not like to see the way you treat people". He was unhappy, but I didn't care, love is the best!

Is it too late for me to warn him?
Would that girl get the hint that I like her and would she appreciate it?
Am I correct and have I done the right thing?
What can I do to improve myself?

Thanks
Dr. Asker

2006-10-13 04:53:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ive tried everything to get this girl to notice me, and we talk but not propely. and i really like her, i wanna go out witrh her. we say hi wen we see each other but we've never had a proper conversation... please help... what can i do to get her attention and get her to like me in the way i like her?

2006-10-13 04:52:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 04:52:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now think REALLY HARD about this question...if you get this right...you get the points!!!!

2006-10-13 04:51:38 · 13 answers · asked by The Phoenix Wears Armani 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-13 04:51:02 · 7 answers · asked by WILLIAM S 1 in Marriage & Divorce