i have a friend who is a guy who is shy and he so happens to realli like a friend of mine who likes him right back..the only problem is she is trying to play hard to get and he is too shy to make a move..so shud i try to wake them up to show them what they are missing out or should i let nature take its course?
2006-10-13 04:59:47 · 13 answers · asked by missthang 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to intervene,otherwise she will move on thinking he is not interested! I'm a shy guy myself,knowing someone likes me helps with the approach
2006-10-13 05:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by CHARLIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them both know the other likes them and then leave it up to them. Once they have it confirmed they will not be rejected they may grow some cajonies and do something about it. Life is too short to play stupid games .
2006-10-13 05:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sarey Gamp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave them to it if none of them doesnt make the first move then its their fault but make sure you tell both of them that the other one really likes them and is waiting on the other to make a move and they are just going to have to sort it out or regret it.
2006-10-13 05:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help nature take its course, by setting up a date for them in your presence initially and getting out susequently, leaving them alone.
2006-10-13 05:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set them up. Make a date with them two and then say your busy at the last minute and have them go somewhere together.
2006-10-13 05:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mariko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with helping them out. Why don't you set up a date for them. That might get things in motion.
2006-10-13 05:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear God, NO! Don't get involved in case it all goes wrong, then you end up looking like a right kunt. Just suggest to her to quit playing hard to get. They'll figure it out eventually.
2006-10-13 05:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to set them up...it couldn't hurt to try. Maybe once you get then together he will forget about his shyness and they'd get together. If you don't do anything then it might never happen.
2006-10-13 05:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by ram_this911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knock their heads together and set them up and hope that it works out....could get less dramatic....but not necessarily so.
Make sure when they get together to say with a smile, if you work out just remember who made it happen but if it doesn't it's not my fault !!
2006-10-13 06:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by lifeontrack2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get them together...maybe go out the three of you and then say you have to go cos u have an emergency, then they will be stuck together and have no where to run haha good luck!
2006-10-13 05:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by feehilan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋