therez a casanova type boy in my group.he stares at me me but his look is very different as he sees other girls.he cares for me and fights for me.he remembers each n everything of me but a moment he makes me feel special and other moment he treats me as i am none to him...on the whole i know he likes me but should i think its for lifetime as he knows i believe in long term relations!
2006-10-13 04:54:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just said a bunch of great stuff about this guy and he sounds wonderful. But if there is ever any moment he treats you like you are no one to him, it negates all the good stuff! Dump the loser for someone who truly cares about you all the time - not just part of the time!
2006-10-13 04:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have something many people would fight for.... I know how it feels when you think a long term relationship is the best thing but it doesn't always work for everyone else and maybe you should take it slow and it might or might not be a lifetime long relationship but it's all worth trying something and see where it goes..... your young and you have tons of time and tons of chances to find someone right for you. I Know you feel He's the one only because he might just be the only guy your interested in but he might not be the one for you...... just take it slow and see where it goes for you......
2006-10-13 05:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by lovargirl158 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible. You are young however and that is not permanent. As you grow and learn you will find your perceptions will change. Date him if you think otherwise just don't go in thinking it will be lasting. By doing so you will have a better understanding of what you want in a male. Don't settle for less once you find out. Just don't get physical otherwise it could get messy.
BTW it is not true girls mature faster. It really is a 50/50 thing but is greatly influenced by their childhood.
2006-10-13 05:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him who he likes.What is the worst that can happen he will either say YOU or he will say someone else right? Don't act as if you want to know for yourself just ask one day when the two of you are talking to each other,if he says your name,then you should know in your heart weather or not to say you like him back.If he says someone else act as if it doesn't bother you 1 bit and act glad for him then you will know but until you two actually start dating don't try to think of long term just yet.Good Luck!!
2006-10-13 05:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by noimok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's young and still immature. Unfortunately, girls mature (light years) ahead of boys. He's still trying to figure himself out and probably enjoys all of the attention he gets from the girls. Timing is everything. Wait till he grows up a bit and matures. In the meantime, enjoy his attention for what it is..
2006-10-13 04:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is forever when you are young. Enjoy his company but don't have any expectations of a long term commitment.
2006-10-13 04:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't count on it being a lifetime relationship, but you have a good one in your hands.
2006-10-13 04:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by pgenius3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If English is a second language to you I apologize.
If you set out to confuse me, you have succeeded. If you didn't you have succeeded anyway. If you would care to try this again in English perhaps we could help.
2006-10-13 05:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋