would you rather be in a relationship with a secure obese person vs. insecure person w/ great body?
no offense intended for big or little people-don't get offended!!
2006-10-13 05:00:50 · 29 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is hard to say because it depends what you consider a great body. And what you determine as insecure comapred to inconfident. Personally I would prefer the great body and would enjoy making them feel secure
2006-10-13 05:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are both not so good, but I'll have to go with the insecure person with a great body. I'd rather be more healthy and not have to defend myself against people telling me I'm fat. Also it's much easier to clothes shop.
2006-10-13 05:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Mariko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be with a fat secure person....i can't take care of someone who is not secure....its too much work. The relationship would not be stable if it has an insecure person in it.
2006-10-13 05:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by CMA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd choose the insecure skinny person coz one can gain confidence from therapy and when they have a great person like me they'll be secure and happy. Then I'd give him some food so that he becomes not skinny. It's easier gaining weight.
2006-10-13 05:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by Eata 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fat with confidence, insecure people are exahausting. Looks aren't everything, however a secure person with a great body doesn't hurt.
2006-10-13 05:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
umm...that's kinda hard. I havent really met any fat people with confidence. I've seen some that act like it but if they could, they would be skinny. Why would someone with a great body be insecure? I guess my answer is neither
2006-10-13 05:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be with a secure obese person because insecure guys suck...they're always breathing down ur neck, wondering where you are, who you're with and on and on....and it's sad cuz a relationship is built on trust.
2006-10-13 05:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be alone than be with a fat person no matter how secure or insecure they are.
2006-10-13 05:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Trips 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither.
People with too high confidence are often conceited and people with no security at all are quite depressing.
I'd rather be with someone who I make feel like they're amazing.
2006-10-13 05:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A fat secure man. You can assist someone in losing weight, but you cannot get them to change their personality.
2006-10-13 05:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋