2006-10-13 04:52:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol.............................
2006-10-13 04:53:59 · update #1
i'm not ugly ,but just how ugly are you
2006-10-13 07:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you have severe self-esteem issues. You shouldn't even want to enter into any type of relationship whether it be perm or temp if you can't or don't love yourself. Stop calling yourself ugly! You are beautiful and I don't even know you. GOD made all of us uniquely beautiful! I think that the reason you are having so much trouble with dating is due to the fact that you are going about it the wrong way. Why would you want someone who only wants your body anyway!? You should have enough self-respect for yourself not to accept anyone who only wants to use you for something. Physicallities, finance, service and/or labor, goods, transport, or simply whatever people abuse others for is not the way. Your soul-mate is searching for you now. In the meantime, you have to stop beating yourself up because the longer it takes for you to get over yourself, the longer it will to take for him to find you. For you won't be ready for him. It's time to start preparing! Luvu.
2006-10-13 12:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by Leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you need to build up your self esteem! Calling yourself ugly is no way to go through a day let alone a life! How can you share love with another human being if you don't first love yourself?
Maybe you should think about counseling to help resolve your feelings before you look for a hook up?
2006-10-13 11:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by donamarie_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be super pretty to get the guys. If you have a hot body and dress nice with a good personality, you will still score. Concentrate on what is best about you. I have been attracted to many women who would be classified as homely yet who were very healthy and fit and had their own style. That got my attention (and I kind of look like George Clooney and have never had a problem attracting women).
2006-10-13 11:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Bob M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys see ugly women as attractive. Stop offering yourself up on a platter.....you have feelings, you know you do so why stuff them down? If you want to get sex so badly...pay an escort and get proper service...dont give it away for free.
Actually...this question really annoys me. Have you truly LOOKED at the couples...people in the mall...even those on any TV program like Jerry Springer or Maury? You may look in the mirror and see eeewww...BUT people dont necessarily see you in that way.
For example.....I saw this so cute guy on...actually 2 on some Plastic Surgery Before and After Program. One guy had his skull caved in on one side due to a car accident...his good side looked awesome...his bad side pretty stuffed (low eyeball thing happening) but sheesh...his good side looked sexy as hell and after a few minutes mental adjustment...thats all I saw. His surgery made a bit of difference but not huge....you tend to go on personality and the best bits.
With the 2nd guy....he looked cute beforehand...lovely big nose...I LOVE big noses and sexy bedroom eyes....but had this California mentality...and CHANGED his looks...and yuck.....no more sexy eyes and a small nose....he looked gay...from ruggedly handsome and growl mode to effemminate, lawyer no way...no character.
YOU can be as ugly as you please....but if you have character...then dont change your looks too much. Big ears, short chin, teeth missing may be bad (get surgery to correct it)......a big nose rarely is a bad thing. AND do be aware that many guys dont see pretty as being pretty....some see character as a sexier thing. Dont sell yourself short.
If your parents have contributed to making you feel ugly...they are **** parents and you should re-evaluate their mental prowess. If you are making YOURSELF to be ugly despite their words of love/encouragement...perhaps you have a dismorphic disorder...like anorexics do...so seek help getting your brain back in perspective.
Having sex with someone just to make you feel good will last precisely 5 minutes after you orgasm....then you will be alone emotionally with your bad thoughts again. So dont do that. Do something productive instead.
2006-10-13 12:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post your picture with an ad on a singles site. I am sure you can hook up with someone. Sorry you are ugly. Hope you arent ugly inside.
2006-10-13 11:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by Maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy will want you, because you are down on yourself. Any girl who is getting any, knows its all about confidence. You dont have to have a great face and a great body.. you just have to act as though you do. Walk with your head high and your **** out and guys seem to be attracted to the whole persona.
As my brother put it tonight.. its not the face you f*** but the f*** you face. LOL
2006-10-13 11:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be that ugly. You cant get a boyfriend because you have a bad attitude about yourself.
2006-10-13 11:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by frigon_p 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you shouldn't call yourself ugly thats not being positive. you should try being more positive of your face and body. Second of all if you can't get a boyfriend its okay,you don't always need a man,be independent of yourself.
2006-10-13 11:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by bossyminnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself some credit. If you are content to be with someone who is interested in you for your looks alone, how sincere do you think the relationship will be. You need to be confident in yourself first. Don't ever settle for less.
2006-10-13 11:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks aren't everything. how is your personality,maybe your personality makes up for everything else and some people are going to miss out. btw quit putting yourself down. if you have a good personality you could be the most beautiful person in the world.
2006-10-13 12:59:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋