I'm not interested in meeting women in bars and clubs. That's where people often tell me. I also go to a small church where there are not many young people. I'm not going to church hop either in order to find someone. So any suggestions?
2006-10-13 04:55:33 · 12 answers · asked by PAboy05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Christian or not, a 'good' woman can be found anywhere you can find a 'bad' one. I have been in relationships with women that have come straight from the depths of strictly imposed moral backgrounds and have turned out to be spawns of the devil himself. I have also had the pleasure of meeting the most honest and clean hearted women in places you would normally expect to find nothing but harlots and liars.
Looking for a good woman is a very proactive activity. Get out and experiment frequenting places where there are simply 'women', you won't know if they are 'good' or 'bad' until you have put your criteria, common sense, and gained experience through the knowledge you have accumulated, into practice.
Don't be misled by the often well meaning, but very biased and pious opinions expressed by the likes of me on this forum.
2006-10-13 05:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who says it isn't a good place to meet men. I think it's a great place to meet men who share the same values and faith as you do. As a matter of fact, to me a person faith background is one of the most significant factors in choosing a mate. Get yourself into a good bible based church, especially one that has a singles group. Those are usually your larger Church's like Lakewood Church. Don't give up, but also don't try to hard. You just keep suiting up and showing up! God Bless you!
2016-03-28 07:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly the everyday places are your best bet. A bookstore, grocery store, anywhere. It happens in the most unexpected places. Don't stress over it and don't be obsessive. Let it happen naturally. Pray to the Lord for his spirit in your life, and with the spirit you can do anything. It will work out. The lord wants you to be happy and will see to your needs. "Man was meant for joy". Have faith brother, and be patient.
2006-10-13 04:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by freeze_guy_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might try taking a night college class, or join another civic group.
Just a couple of Ideas to get out there!
Peace, and God Bless your Search!
2006-10-13 05:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are Christian dating sites where you can probably find someone in your area or through other Christian friends.
2006-10-13 04:59:29 · answer #5 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to meet people is through friends. Or friends of friends. People who you work with have friends and so forth...It will just happen.........
2006-10-13 05:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by trixinator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there is always the choice of christian chat rooms if your not gonna go visit other churches.
2006-10-13 05:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At church.
2006-10-13 04:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by sleef 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry to say but i love jesus and i have him in my hearth this is why i will tell you this, there is no good place to meet a good woman if you are walking with jesus just tell him to bring you a good woman into youre life and he will trust in the lord he loves you he wants the best for you.
2006-10-13 05:01:56 · answer #9 · answered by babyg 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Christians can go to singles clubs..go ahead and try them ..it might be fun!! good luck
2006-10-13 05:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by tazzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋