Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

My buddy met this girl a while ago and they went out on a date...she is very good looking and makes around 90,000 a year....she seems like a very nice girl and is very polite when around his friends....but she has given a few signals that i think he should leave her for..here they are..the first date they had she took off her panties and wanted to have sex but he wouldnt ...the second date they did...since then every time they see each other she seems to not get enough sex..he said when she gets to his house around 8 pm the have sex 3 times before midnight then after that she gives him head....the next morning as soon as she wakes up she rolls over onto him for some more....also he has told me things she does when its only him and her and from that you can tell she is trying to control him. furthermore you can tell she is thinking of marraige...i think its her age issue she doesnt want to be alone...should i tell my friend i think he should leave her? i dont want her to take adv ofhm

2006-10-12 08:25:27 · 24 answers · asked by camden 3 in Singles & Dating

I like my italian bf or my guido John a lot we have both met each other parents and the like however my grandmother is moving in with my family for half the year till her house is done being built and i kind of let her think that he was Spanish when he was not my parents have not said anything to her because they like my bf and feel its my job to fix this. I was thinking of maybe just trying to pass him of as spanish but he might get offeneded and angry.

2006-10-12 08:25:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I took you to dinner, picnics, walks in parks, Etc.

2006-10-12 08:24:15 · 13 answers · asked by Matsukaze 3 in Singles & Dating

She has only been with him a short while, 3 months, he is far too old for her, he is in his thirties, and she is giving up her job, everything, to move 150 miles away with him. I am worried sick, she is upset, that i am upset, but she is determined to go. She wants my blessing, but i can`t give it, i don`t really know this guy, not properly, what can i do? I won`t sleep at night.

2006-10-12 08:24:14 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-12 08:24:11 · 8 answers · asked by umair 1 in Marriage & Divorce

does he like me is it like we have something? its through chat..read what he wrote and help?
heres what started it all I went to see amovie and chatted to him afterwards:


i saw my super ex girlfriend which made me wanna fly....
lol cute
you're bi O_o?
ex gf?
its a movie
im straight...
oh
want to hook up ;)
just kidding :P
ok! seriously?
:P it was a joke
but i dont know you that well :(
i know...

so after he acted differently heres some stuff he posted:

ill talk to you later mkay, sexy muffin =D
oh stop ruBbing it in :(
can i come over :P
is it far? :P
well i g2g sexy muffin :P
call my cell if you got it :-O
oh wait you dont got it :P
hehe.. just for like an hour :(
well my beautiful friend..
well if you lived here with me, i'd drop you off ;)
want to come live with me? :P
whos that hot surfer chick :-O
still you're pretty damn hot ;)
you a cutey :P
want to hook up ;)
just kidding :P
"and i have to shower but im too lazy...but its soo hot..." ill join you if you want ;)
hey baby girl sorry but im gonna lay down
for you? sure ;)
have fun sexy dina :P



hes also got these emoticons ones a hugggg the other a pat and like smile thing if im down or something and there a kiss...

some stuff that made me think he wasnt into me or that its a normal thing what he does
would be his myspace (theres a bunch of hot chicks in his top 8 and like well thats it
but liketheyre models and you know...) so why would I fit in?
just seeing that made me think he was into that sort of stuff and when he said 'ill join you...' suggests hes like idk longing for something you know... i have no idea its just all confusing for me

Additional Details

42 minutes ago
oh and when I said he was like into girls and stuff hes also into himself like when he put

hey D like what you see >>
that was pointing to the picture he put up and it was his body shirtless to show that hes muscly and he excercises.....just felt like adding this dont ask why...

2006-10-12 08:23:39 · 10 answers · asked by ██████████ 3 in Friends

When your on Answers, do you get the answers you want to hear.

***Just curious!!!!***


Im just @ work playing around on here. Its great hearing about everyones problems, makes me feel better about my relationship. It is a little addicting! LOL!!

2006-10-12 08:23:15 · 27 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Marriage & Divorce

she asked if she'd left it at my dorm, and I said no, it wasn't here, even though really it was. should I give it back to her, or do you think I should keep it?

the thing is, I really like ipods, but I can't afford one of my own, and she's loaded, her parents give her everything she wants, so I'm sure they'll just buy her another one anyway.

2006-10-12 08:21:56 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 08:21:50 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Behave in a civil fashion next time we run into each other ?? Is this person hurting cause I refused to acknowlege him last time we met accidently in a shopping mall??

2006-10-12 08:21:50 · 3 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

seems after i have been in a relationship for 3 years things start to go downhill dramatically. why is it that men all start acting like selfish a holes at that time?

2006-10-12 08:20:39 · 21 answers · asked by jess 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 08:20:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 08:19:38 · 33 answers · asked by twlight354 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

They act as if it's a sin to kiss her in public or say I love you ( I always say "I'm in love with you" to really drive the point home).you stan din line with a rose in your hand at the store and they look at you like they want to kill you! As if a three dollar rose is gonna bankrupt them!Your thoughts please............

2006-10-12 08:19:15 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know her, but I do know her name, I'm not sure if she knows me though. I see her during lunch. I sometimes catch her looking at me. But I'm still not sure if she likes me. >_< How do I deal with this? It's hard starting a conversation with someone I've never known before. And it's hard to try and holla at someone, when she's with her friends, only time I see her is lunch and she's always with her friends. It would've been easier to talk to her if she had atleast one class with me.

2006-10-12 08:18:44 · 5 answers · asked by some1male 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband had a prior short relationship of kissing and making out and meeting this other woman who was married at the time as well and my and my hub both know her and her hub well. We are really good common friends of each other. Anyway how is it that if my hub and her talked about not seeing or doing anything again...this was over 7 months ago and that every time they run into each other at a party or with us at a restaurant, those two keep staring in each others eyes and my hub gazes in her eyes and he always does this. i find him observe her and her actions at times. why does he do this?
Also if he told her they can't do see or kiss or anything, but yet she writes him friendly/general emails which he ALWAYS replies back to every time, and he also knows the woman loves him. Don't you think my man does like her alot? Is it possible for him to kiss me, make love to me, do good things for me, but then on the side reply back to her emails, only tell me about some of them, and

2006-10-12 08:18:36 · 25 answers · asked by Saira D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 22 and have been chatting with an online friend for past 4 years. we never met. He is friendly and caring. But he likes to bug me a lot and recently he has been doing it too frequently and it pisses me of. i just hate him for that but everytime i see him come online, I can't stop myself from messageing him. Last night he did it again and I logged off. he sent many messages saying sorry but I didn't reply him and I cried like a baby. WHATS WRONG WITH ME?

2006-10-12 08:18:33 · 8 answers · asked by 123 2 in Friends

ok so theres this boy an hes always on my mind an i really like him but im not sure if he feels the saem about me. hes really cute an we talk only he usually IMs me first but when he doesnt its hard for me to talk first idont wanna sound like im ubsessed about him but i really like him hes good friends with my friend so should i ask her to ask him what he thinks of me??? please help!!!

2006-10-12 08:18:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on my last Q. most of you said "talk to him" and that would work except i feel like every time that i try NO MATTER WHICH WAY I COME AT THE SITUATION he gets angry or shuts down and doesnt answer or it just turns into an arguement. and we both end up hurt emotionally. ive even suggested counselling and he refuses. am i wasting my time should i give up?

2006-10-12 08:18:10 · 18 answers · asked by PyroPixie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They where in his wallet (I wasn't snooping, my 4 yr. old got to it). There was 9 of them and he said he got them from somone who came into his work. Other woman said this is common, but it bothered me that he didn't tell me about them considering he tells me every other detail of work. Yes, he could have felt comfortable telling me because we have went to strip clubs together. Needless to say, it turned into a fight, yet he still kept them (they are on top of the fridge). When I asked him why he kept them, he said "I didn't know if you would want to go". What should I think about it? Let it go?

2006-10-12 08:18:03 · 22 answers · asked by MiZmeL 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've met a Thai girl and we've got to know each other fairly well. We seem to both be attracted to each other, but she says she doesn't feel she wants a relationship yet.

I don't know what to do. She's 5 years older than I am, and it confuses me. She's told me many times she likes me, but a while ago she told me she doesn't want to go into a relationship.

I just don't want to go and say the wrong thing at the wrong time.

2006-10-12 08:17:33 · 21 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Singles & Dating

i met him 2 years ago. he just started dating this new girl like 2 weeks ago. i dont know what to expect when i go to see him. he is going with a friend to new york for a retirement party and so am i. we're both 17. im going with my sister and mom. we talk all the time on the phone but not so much lately. i really like him and i wouldn't be upset if something happened while we are in NY. but again the girlfriend issue. he says he likes me too but he doesnt know what to do. is there anyone out there that can give me adivice on what to do to kind of sway him my way?

2006-10-12 08:17:27 · 11 answers · asked by honikaua0211 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 08:17:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is mexican and i am white and when we went out he didnt speak much english and i didnt speak much spanish so i broke up with him. now he called me and he said he learned more english and he can talk it pretty good. he's a nice guy but when we went out we had sex so i dont know if he will want to now but i dont want to till i get to know him more so i guess im asking should i go out on a date with him or what

2006-10-12 08:17:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

over 30 males and one felmale will she change over does she just like sex to much and cant say no whats the probleam

2006-10-12 08:17:07 · 45 answers · asked by PETE 3 in Singles & Dating

what do woman want to see a man do in a relationship and and what do woman want to get out of a relationship

2006-10-12 08:16:38 · 5 answers · asked by yard kid 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my daughter father has gone our seperate ways.The thing is I still love him very much.We have 12 yrs invested.I let him go because finicially I just thought as a man he could do better.We were always getting eviction notices and he did'nt seem like he was alright with it,but never mde a attempt to beeter himself.Really easy going always calm really mild mannered.He now has a gf with 3 boys and I have moved on to.But I miss him so much.I'm thinking if I gave him so space and time to grow that would help.Im 30 and he's 31.My mom said He's a really great guy but he's use to me oing everything,she said I made him that way.Any advice please help?.

2006-10-12 08:15:55 · 12 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

how come they will keep a question like what girls here like to have sexual relations with another woman,

and then they delete my quesiton like " how do you know if a girl is sexually attracted to you?

2006-10-12 08:15:51 · 5 answers · asked by Jim e 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 08:15:31 · 7 answers · asked by takethetube222 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 08:14:49 · 9 answers · asked by Juan 1 in Singles & Dating