Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

im 15, my boyfriend is 16. iv always said i wz 15 for a while, should i tell him or does it realli matter? i love him but hes gonna think i lied about alot of things after i tell him this...and thats the only thing iv ever lied about! we'v been together for 5mnths....

2006-10-12 08:39:43 · 17 answers · asked by sazidoll 1 in Singles & Dating

Admittedly I the stepfather have said some mean things about the father. When the father talks about how stupid the stepdad is it's ok. When father treats kids unfairly, I have a hard time not pointing it out. I have always tried to be good to the kids. Father manages to turn everything positive I have done into a negative. If I buy them something nice it's bribery, if I don't give them what they want it's punishment for not choosing me over there father. Father treats kids unequally. Kids just put up with it. I am an asss if I say anything. Almost 17 year daughter used to love me. Now won't speak to me. He can feed them crap, and they think it tastes like jello. I treat them like princesses and I am trying to take them from their father, shame on me. I told almost 17 yr stepdaughter that if she keeps buying off on all the bull crapss her father fills her head with she is going to miss out on alot of good stuff. She would rather hate me. Don't know what to do.

2006-10-12 08:39:14 · 8 answers · asked by TK 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever had one of your teachers at school say that when there is a pep rally during the last 30 minutes of school, she would leave after school but not right away and then she leaves anyway?
That's what just happened to me today. After I get back from the pep rally, She's gone. And she has my bookbag with the homework that I'm supposed to do tonight for Algebra, Locked in the room! So now I can't do my homework and turn it in and get a good grade on it. (Just so you didn't notice, this is something that I am not happy with) So now I have to wait until monday because tomorrow is a progressive teacher planning day for Hillsborough County, Florida schools. Does anyone have any tips on how to get over this Frustration? Please be serious.

2006-10-12 08:38:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my friends have been planning a party for months and we have all the suppliers that are need we for the monster bash.
A WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

2006-10-12 08:38:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was talking to this girl getting along perfectly and every thing looking good. Got some arguments and she was in total control and started ignoring me at the same time saying I want this to work…changing her mind every third day at the end I this is it….. Now I am always thinking about her and thinking if she is going to call me…all my friends are saying move on...... advice

2006-10-12 08:38:39 · 7 answers · asked by stock2004dc 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems that even being married, people seem to go out and cheat. Especially men. I get hit on by married me all the time and I feel bad for the women because they probably think that they have this great man who doesn't do NO wrong

2006-10-12 08:38:14 · 8 answers · asked by Curious 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He lefted to go to school do you think he misses me???

2006-10-12 08:37:52 · 8 answers · asked by Jillian 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last Friday was our 16th Wedding Anniversary. It was a busy day so clearly we would not be 'doing' anything on that day. However not a single word of acknowledgement in any form, not even a hug or 'I love you', nothing. I patiently waited, then left him a note of acknowledgement to 'our' day. Next morning, first thing out of his month is a complaint of self, then things for the day, finally cause I wasn't responding it was...oh happy anniversary. We had a very busy weekend, so I left it at that and waited till Monday evening to address it. Which also gave him an opportunity to make up for it (he had windows of time to of done 'something') - still nothing. So Monday, I address it, and stated that our marriage is of priority and that I was hurt he didn't have it in his heart to acknowledge it. His response was that I was over reacting and was providing the usually excuses. This isn't the first time. So, he's on the floor and is pissed at me! What should of I had done??

2006-10-12 08:37:42 · 13 answers · asked by carenffb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I personally got rid of every girl i slept with on the first date after a few weeks of having fun.......i didnt think that type of girl was really one i wanted to take home to mom... and i always figured if she let me sleep with her on the first date she must have done it with others...what would you guys do?

2006-10-12 08:36:29 · 25 answers · asked by camden 3 in Singles & Dating

The other day, I ran into our old high school quarterback at the local drug store. It's been almost 10 years since hs, and while we were pleasant to each other back then, we weren't really friends. He wouldn't give me the time of day.

Now, however, while talking to him in line at the store, I kept catching him looking at my breasts. I mean - OBVIOUSLY staring..gawking, even.

I walked away with a sense of confidence. But, my question is, girls - how would you handle this? Would you say something, or just let it go?

2006-10-12 08:35:49 · 11 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 08:34:34 · 16 answers · asked by sweets 1 in Friends

i have been with my current bf for just over 2 years, the beg of the year he cheated on me. we split up and their relationship lasted for 2 days and not long after i took him back. i started to trust him here and there but before he was texting some girl. i asked him who it was he said a mate from college.(he no longer goes to this college) i totally went mate he said it was only a mate but i got insecure as this is how the other affair started. so i was obviously worried. Hes tellin me nothin is or will go on but i dnt know what to believe. he works in mcies and he said she came in for her dinner and they got chattin and he was busy so he gave her his number and vice versa and now they are texting each other. i love him so much i just dont want to lose him. please help!

2006-10-12 08:33:57 · 13 answers · asked by logsy_babe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

... that they just don't seem to know

2006-10-12 08:32:44 · 13 answers · asked by jami p 2 in Singles & Dating

How can I spice up the bed room life? Any sexy suggestions?

2006-10-12 08:32:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 08:31:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend and I just call it off, well i called it off because he is affraid of a commitment. We have been seeing exclusive for a while. What should I do? Would it be wrong to keep him around until I meet someone else? Or should I just continue putting up with him, I must say he is the only man I have ever trusted but besides that there is nothing else.

2006-10-12 08:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by Cowgirl Joe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my neighbour kept complaining about the moans and noises that he hears from my bedroom, he complained i ignored him and now he thinks he can combat the noise by putting on his collection of porn movies on maximum volume what an idiot. anyway have you ever had problems with your nieghbour like this about your sex life

2006-10-12 08:30:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy I'm really into we haven't had sex yet and I'm wondering how long should I wait before we do. He is not my boyfriend. It's so tempting but I promised myself I wouldn't make the same mistake twice.
So should i wait until we are in a relationship?
If so how long should I wait after we get into one?
My last reltionship was awful he was abusive so I really want to take things slow, but I don't want to be a tease or a prude.

2006-10-12 08:29:16 · 16 answers · asked by jessi 3 in Singles & Dating

I need some damage control. I met this girl and we went out for a little while. She eventually said she wanted to be friends and nothing more. I really really like this girl. I mean she is perfect in all the important ways. After we decided to be friends, we didn't see each other much (maybe once in two months). Recently, I got a job offer that is across the country in Arizona and I am thinking about taking it. The only thing holding me here is her. I took her to dinner the other night and I told her. We talked and she cried and the night was great. We hugged and kissed for hours. The following night, I saw her again and we hugged and kissed. After I left her house, I text messaged her and told her I loved her and that I can't imagine my life without her. I told her I need to get all this out before I go to Arizona. I spilled everything about how I feel. She didn't get the message till morning and said she'd text message me tonight. My question is, was it a mistake to tell her that?

2006-10-12 08:28:45 · 17 answers · asked by icemanind 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 08:28:28 · 6 answers · asked by Juan 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you lie to your fiance about something you did even though you didnt "do" anything. what I mean is if you went somewhere with another girl and you didnt do anything physically would you still lie to your fiance because your afraid she will be pissed at you

2006-10-12 08:28:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 08:27:49 · 9 answers · asked by deneenjess 1 in Family

met this girl 3 weeks ago, started talkin on facebook. we havent hung out in person yet, but i suggested it, and she said she would be up for that...once she gets back from fall break. the way she was talkin on the messsages she sent on facebook, she seemed like she was interested in me, and it almost seemed like she has a crush on me. i saw her looking at me at dinner the other day, and i know shes been looking at my profile. i think i have a crush on her. so i thought once we started hangin out and gettin to know each other, id have a good chance of dating her or gettin into a relationship eventually. but as of yestrday, shes no longer looking for a relationship, just friendship, according to her profile. does she like me? or is she tryin to send me a sign that shes not interested in me like that? which is contrary to what i previously thought. i sent her a message a couple days ago, saying "talk to you later, hopefully." she hasnt responded yet. what do i make of all this?

2006-10-12 08:27:45 · 5 answers · asked by Ryan E 1 in Singles & Dating

the only reason i have not commited suicide is because of my mother she might feel pretty sad if i did how can i get her to understand so i won't feel so bad about it?

2006-10-12 08:27:28 · 16 answers · asked by raul b 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She claims she was wasted, and proclaims her love for me....is it possible to move on, is it possible or fair to raise this baby?

2006-10-12 08:27:15 · 7 answers · asked by jean h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 08:26:42 · 13 answers · asked by erwin d 1 in Family

I tryed moving on and that just only works a little, how can I stop thinking anout my x and move on?

2006-10-12 08:26:41 · 11 answers · asked by Thick~Chick 2 in Singles & Dating

im doing a reserch paper on why guys can't keep a converstation going with gurls and why do they ask the same boring question do u work what do u liek to do ... and i feel that sometime boring small talk is just that small talk. so what can a guy say to keep you girls interested in them

2006-10-12 08:25:56 · 11 answers · asked by mighty mouse 1 in Singles & Dating

Not to sound conceited or anything, but I think that I am a really great guy and I really want to start dating again. I'm shy but I'm not shy. I'll go up to a girl and talk to her, but I don't know what to say in terms of making a move. What do girls want guys to say them? I'll like having intelligent conversations. Do girls like that? Give me some good advice. Don't give me one sentence answers.

2006-10-12 08:25:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm invited to an old friend's baby shower. It's a 5-hour drive, so I've decided I'm not going. At my job, I have access to TONS of children's books.
Is it wrong for me to give her some children's books as a gift-- and nothing else? Or should I send something that I actually bought, too?

2006-10-12 08:25:27 · 13 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Friends