2006-10-12 08:34:34 · 16 answers · asked by sweets 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dump him straight away and find someone who deserves to be with you....someone who is worthy enough to give your time to....a man who doesn't appreciate who you are and the effort you're putting into a relationship isn't a real man to begin with! good luck!!
2006-10-12 08:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jaybird21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really means a lot to you then sit down and have a talk with him about it and explain to him how you feel. He might just be under a lot of stress lately and have other things on his mind. If he hasn't been around for awhile then get rid of him, you can find much better. Good luck sweetie!
2006-10-12 15:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by darcilynn83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really is a complete *** break up with him. i know it's hard, because you can start to get comfortable with them, but the fact that you realize he doesn't appreciate you is a good sign. you realize that you deserve better and that is sooo important. maybe you just need to seriously discuss this with him. sometimes people need reminders and notifications of how they are acting. he needs to be warned that "hey, i'm going to leave you if you don't change". if he doesn't change or doesn't take you seriously, leave him. life is too short to waste your time with someone who doesn't appreciate you.
2006-10-12 15:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by cheekybrit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ignore them. this really works. when they are going out with their friends, and you would usually get mad, tell him to have fun. you forget to do all the little things you usually do, appear very bored during sex, etc. they don't appreciate you when they think you are hanging on their every word...someone always has the upper hand in the relationship, and you need to swing it the other way.... basically, one person feels the other person loves them more than they do.... and they don't feel obligated to appreciate you.
2006-10-12 15:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by raven_roycroft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you appreciate yourself, and you KNOW that you have a right to be appreciated by someone else you will not put up with anyone NOT appreciating you. So talk to him about him about it . If he understands then its fine. But if he says you're wrong then dump him. NO point.
2006-10-12 15:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Liz^24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just don't deal with it...find someone who will appreciate you.
2006-10-12 15:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE BEST IS TO BREAK UP WIT HIM COS HE DOESNOT DESERVE U. THERE'S SOMEONE OUT THERE WHO'LL TREAT AND APPRECIATE YOU MORE COS AS THE SAYING GOES AND I QUOTE "ONE WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT HE'S GOT TILL ITZ GONE". SO DUMP HIM AND BEFORE YOU REALISE HE'LL COMING CRUSHING BACK BUT THEN IT'LL BE TOO LATE U WOULD HAVE FOUND YOUR TRUE LOVE!!!!!
2006-10-12 15:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by sparkylle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you feel unappreciated and if he does nothing to change his ways, then you have some serious thinking to do, I just went through that with my bf and some changes had to be made. We made them and we are a lot happier now.
2006-10-12 15:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by Mizz Peni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You speak to him about your feelings and if he continues to unappreciate you, then you leave him.
The two of you are not married, there's no ring on your finger, so if you feel like you're not getting what you deserve, it's easier then in a marriage to just get up and leave.
2006-10-12 15:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..well if you really want to be with him then tell him how you feel and if he doesn't change or make you feel any different then hey kick him to the curb and find yourself someone who appreciates you.
2006-10-12 15:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋