Family & Relationships - 12 October 2006

2006-10-12 08:57:29 · 3 answers · asked by orangeontherocks 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you consider good reasons for wanting or leaving the job you are in. I dont feel comfortable with the people here at work, and its making me want to leave my job. I am unhappy and in turn taking it out on my family. Sundays are miserable for me becasue I am coming to work the next day and I feel that I dont fit in. The only reason why I am staying is because I am getting married next year and I cant be off work.

2006-10-12 08:57:19 · 17 answers · asked by indiradelmar57 1 in Friends

i'm 15 and i really like this girl as a friend nothing else and for some reason i do everything to keep her happy and i just want to be her friend. this weekend i'm spending nearly £200 on a birthday party for her and i would only ever do this for her. i want her to be my best friend and so thats why i do this. i really love her but everyone else seems to think shes taking me for a ride and she knows this. in the past we hav had big arguments but we never row now we occasionally talk but not that much. i still want to be her best friend whatever happens i just dont know how to do it without her taking advantage of me like my friends say...but also today my teacher commented on it....what do i do next? i honestly love her and want the best for her

2006-10-12 08:56:57 · 20 answers · asked by nicola b 1 in Friends

I'm 16 and I've been going out with the guy of my dreams for 3 weeks. We're both virgins. We've been talking openly about sex from the beginning of our relationship, but it's happening this weekend... And I am terrified! This guy is wonderful and I really love him to bits, but I can't help but think that this is too fast... I'm not the most attractive girl and I'm so scared he won't like my body and be put off. I really don't want that to happen... I want to have sex, but I'm just not sure that I'm really ready. I'm getting shakes from thinking about it, I'm so nervous, but my boyfriend assumes that I'm very willing and this will definately happen at the weekend... What the hell is wrong with me?

2006-10-12 08:56:45 · 10 answers · asked by Leanne 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 08:56:29 · 5 answers · asked by Gorgeous 1 in Family

ladies give me your thoughts.....lets say you were dating a guy& u thought he was great and he had told you early on that he does not like ORAL sex giving or getting?? WOuld youstill stay with him?? This girl I started dating told me that and I dont know if I should stop seeing her b.c I enjoy oral and why should I give that up?? any help?

2006-10-12 08:56:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

NEVER TO COME
A YOUNG GIRL STOPS AND RELAIZES SHE’S IN LOVE.
SHE’S NOT CUTE AND QUESTIONS WHY TO THE BOY.
THE BOY IS HANDSOME, CUTE, SEXY, SMART AND FUNNY ALL AT THE SAME TIME.
HE ‘S ONE OF A KIND.
THEY LOVE EACH OTHER BUT TO BE NEVER TOGETHER AGAIN.
THEY BOTH LONG FOR EACH OTHER REACH OUT FOR ONE ANOTHER
BUT TO NEVER TOUCH THEIR HANDS TOGETHER.


THE BOY IS EVERYTHING SHE EVER WANTED IN A GUY.
BUT HE’LL NEVER BE HERS JUST ALWAYS NOTHING BUT A DREAM.
SHE WANTS HIM SO BAD .
JUST THE THOUGHT OF BEING WITH HIM IS MAKING HER HAPPY.
HE’S NOT REALLY THE TYPE TO SEATTLE DOWN ALWAYS ON THE MOVE.
HE LOVES HER BUT KNOWS IT COULD NEVER WORK OUT.
THE FEAR OF HURTING HER IS WHAT ALWAYS COMES TO MIND.
HE SEES NO FURTURE WITH HER.
BUT SHE SEES A LIFETIME.

JUST THE THOUGHT OF WAKING UP TO HIM EVERY DAY IS GETTING HER EXCITED.
TURNED ON BY THE THOUGHT OF MAYBE BARING HIS FIRST BORN.
BUT NEVER THE DAY TO COME.
HE SAYS THAT THEY SHOULDN’T BE TOGETHER FOR A MINTUNE.
MAYBE 2 OR 3 BUT AS THE MINTUES GO ON TOGETHER AGAIN WILL NEVER COME.
BUT SHE STILL HOPES AND DREAMS OF BEING HIS ONE AND ONLY.
BEING THERE TO LAUGH, CRY, ENJOY HIM CARE FOR HIM.
AND JUST BE WITH HIM.
BUT THAT DAY WILL NEVR COME.

2006-10-12 08:56:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i move back tobatesville mississippi to get my life bak on track . i found an house move in the problem is i can't get my light on because of a past due bill with is 352 dallor. i would have to pay that bill pay 200 deposit. i don't have that kind of money now i owe people now because i borrow to get deposit for the house i need help but i can't find the help i need i have a 12 years old daudhter she need ligth on i can't take it much longer please fid me help

2006-10-12 08:56:10 · 3 answers · asked by blessin2006gee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 08:55:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

transcript of an IM conversation that we had so that she could prove that she was in the right. The transcript pretty much "proved" that we were both "right" in one way or another. But, what bothers me is that she even HAD a transcript of our 2 month old conversation. I mean, she saved this & then had to go back thru her transcripts to find the right conversation. This seems a little over the tip - and even a tad bit nuts. What do you think? (By the way, I didn't even know she was archiving all our conversations - it makes me feel a bit weirded out by her now.)

2006-10-12 08:55:35 · 12 answers · asked by J.Z. 3 in Friends

stay the night with him, as I had said before. I had been around him before, yes he is 46, and I will not turn 26 until January. I had a little to drink, as did he, but not enough to make me do something I wouldn't want to do. I am sometimes shy, and sometimes not. I did take all my clothes off before I got into bed with him, things did happen, but not all the way, I wish I could go back. I would have not changed that, but I wonder about him so much. I am not after him for money, or to help with my situation. I do like him, and am very turned on by him. He is able to be with anyone. I can't stop thinking about him. I have asked questions about this, and have gotten some really good advice, and appreciate all of it. I just don't know what to do. I think I should go back and meet him, go out, and see what happens. I do love the way he makes me feel. I like the fact that hes older. Is this wrong to be attracted to an older man, and to have slept with him, and undressed in front of him?

2006-10-12 08:55:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this chick for a month and a half, but recently she's become really busy with her uni studies. She told me that she couldn't spend much time with me at all, which was ok, but then when she's sposed to be busy she tells me she's going out on dinners with her best friend on several occasions. Her best friend went through a really bad bad break up, and now my gf's become all insecure about our r'ship now. She thinks i'm going to leave her, then she's now conerned about the age gap (she's older by 2 years), she thinks all guys are assholes.......i dunno what to do. When i text her she replies instantly but she's more cold in her responses. I can't really ring her up because she's really busy with her uni work and she made that clear to me. Anyway advice would be great.......thanks

2006-10-12 08:55:19 · 5 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

For years my husband (almost ex, divorce almost final) spoke online with women and spent more time in conversation with them than with me. One time, the computer was left on to an email convo he had and I was so surprised at how "in love" they were acting.

We have three kids... he was a stay-at-home dad. I just ignored it.

I thought that maybe these friendships were good for him...

HOW WRONG I WAS...

What the hell was my problem? My not getting PISSED at him destroyed everything. Not that it matters... we aren't very compatible to begin with...

Anyone else with this problem?

Not enough jealousy in a relationship...?

2006-10-12 08:55:03 · 13 answers · asked by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother is 75 years old, and lives alone. She first started seeing cats and feeling cats on the bed with her. The cats didnt bother her. Spirits only come when she is ready to go bed. More often now, shes people, sometimes old, sometimes young, some dressed from eras long agao. Last night it waas just an old mans head on the side of her bed. She usually screams or yells go away, and they do. But she says cant sleep much anymore, because they just wont leave her alone. Should she move? Will the spirits follow her? Does anyone know someone who could come and help her? She lives near the cemetary, but not too close, she lives near the creek where alot of feral cats live and died, but the only thing that used to be in the palce where she lives now was once an old golf course. I am really worried about her.

2006-10-12 08:54:50 · 4 answers · asked by photographybyjeni 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he has never ever wanted to give me a picture of his. I have asked many times and he says he will, but he never does. We even took pictures together one day and he said he'd give me one later - which he never did; he claims he's lost them. He says that I will probably be showing them off to my friends and that people will recognize him.
You see, he is married; and I have a relationship with someone else, but he knows that I truly truly LOVE him. I wouldn't hurt him by showing his picture to anyone. After 7 years and it really hurts that he still can't trust me. I just want a picture of him because I hardly ever see him (he's working out of town). How can I convince him to just let me have a tiny picture?

2006-10-12 08:54:45 · 10 answers · asked by Ladyinred 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 08:54:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this girl, she is very flirty and acts like she likes me, and when I ask her out she says no! any explanation? :/

2006-10-12 08:54:11 · 6 answers · asked by Burning out, not fading away 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 08:54:03 · 10 answers · asked by BCSC SuperLeader 1 in Friends

she want to try lesbianism,i said"not while your with me!"

2006-10-12 08:53:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would it be easier? What's the pros and cons. Well I expect the asnswers are from someone who has experiences before. And how come there's always a lot of guys okay with their gf / wife was bi?

2006-10-12 08:53:52 · 2 answers · asked by Lucy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Did u think the effect is different in the too?
Did u think one is easier to forgive than the other?
If u had to pick would u perfer u spouse have a one nighter,
or affair,

2006-10-12 08:53:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After offering to take a lady to the fanciest restaurant in town, (One where I'd have to make reservations), and after she already agreed to do something with me, anything. Whether it was getting dinner, a movie, coffee, going bowling.....But especially this dinner...Suddenly she isn't so sure....Tells me she'll call back with an answer, and then doesn't seem to have time......Where did I go wrong? I hadn't even been on a date with her yet, and I offered to take her to the nicest place in town. She was eager at first, and I was never over bearing, always let her call me....So what happened?

2006-10-12 08:53:24 · 26 answers · asked by Matsukaze 3 in Singles & Dating

How come when you've tried to forget about someone, you finally think you have..but then you see that person..and every feeling you've had for them, just comes back even stronger than before??

2006-10-12 08:53:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think that the guy that was crank calling the same week we broke up, still thinks about me? and why?

2006-10-12 08:53:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband loves his job and so do I,but some days he comes home really stress out, and I try things to get his mind off of the stress or at least talk about it, but sometimes he dont like talking about the problem until he is over it. Thats make me upset because I want to help him but its hard when he wants to handle it on his own so that makes me stressed. I understand being in the Marine Corps is demanding and sometimes very stressful, so is it best for me to give him his space during times like that or take a different approach?

2006-10-12 08:52:54 · 6 answers · asked by marine_wife001 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and we have been living together for one year. He drinks every night. When he runs out of beer he hits up the liquer cabinet and when that is empty he gets those little souvenir bottles of liquer and drinks those. He doesn't act insane when he drinks but every so often his insecurity of women kicks in. Drunk or sober I am blamed for everything that goes wrong. He can turn anything around on me that I have nothing to do with. He is insecure about himself and about us. He has a really bad relationships in the past with ex-girlfriends and his ex-wife. They all seem to have cheated on him. I have never given him a reason to think that I would do anything to jeopardize our relationship or hurt him. I have a 4 year old son who adores him and knows him to be his father. I don't know what to do. I love this guy with all my heart. When I point out the issues that he needs to work on I seem to be the bad guy. I need advise. What do I do?

2006-10-12 08:52:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was the nice kind of girl and always been that way to people at that school but everyone kept getting on my nerves so then I became kind of mean.
I'm not really mean but have an attitude problem.
And my friendz think I actually act like Manny ( i thought it was an inside joke but it's really getting serious).
They say i flirt with all the boyz...
Because all the boyz say "hi" to me and then my so called friend got mad at me so she ask every boy out for me and i didn't know.
And I have to hide my pain.... Because my heart been broken and i have bad family problems...
And i'm just trying to be happy at the one place that i can be happy.. which is school. I can forget about all my problems until i found out all this time all the girls think i'm a slutt most of the boyz think i am 2!..
WHAT SHOULD I DO???

2006-10-12 08:51:35 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 08:51:25 · 18 answers · asked by Violet_rose 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-12 08:51:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-12 08:51:17 · 3 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Family