OK, Here's the story. I am married with two kids, 7 and 2. I just moved everything we own across the country and set up house for our family. While I was doing this my wife had an affair and decided she could not move, wants to seperate/divorce, and cant stop seeing the new guy. I am living with her at her parents while I finish up work here before starting a job across the country. I love her. I love my kids. I love my marriage. She shows signs of reconsidering, but then pushes me away, and though it is not in my face, she will not give up the new person.
We have been together for 8 years and this is the first affair either of us has had. She seems like a different person. Cold and completely disconnected from our life together. I have a lot to consider... I am facing the prospect of moving, losing my daily life with my kids, starting a new job, and leaving my marriage all at once. What should I do?
2006-10-12
09:17:16
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Marriage & Divorce