i think my girl had sex with some kid she been talk to but i dont no she said she didnt how can i find out of no if she did?
2006-10-12 09:27:12 · 18 answers · asked by Gabriel F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust is the number one ingredient in any relationship - the fact that this Q is coming up proves that there are certainly some more underlying issues wich has to be dealt with - if you dont wanna do that.. spy on her.. or get ur friends do.. personally I wouldnt waste my time..
2006-10-12 09:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by MIMSTRIK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I recommend YOU end this relationship right NOW. Go date other girls, tell her she will be fine and you will be fine don't worry. IF YOU DON'T END IT SHE WILL. Dont be the looser in the race and don't be concerned if she dates or not, don't waste your saliva. You'll be STEPING outside of this BOX you are in. Don't help her financially, no favors, keep the interaction between you minimal to non. If she calls you tell her you are busy, hang up and don't call her back. BREAK it UP.
Concentrate on YOU, start making money and get to know yourself better. ONCE you get to KNOW YOURSELF you will know what's good for you all day, you will be mature and experienced.
DATE DATE DATE, Concentrate on becoming whole and complete with yourself. Give yourself credit for having a relationship already. Now you need to concentrate on you. TRUST your gut instict, invest in yourself...you are slacking in that department, that's why you come up with these questions, otherwise, believe me, you wouldn't even wonder, you'd just know and know what to do about it.
This will be hard at the beginning, but that's part of your endurance. Both of you need to grow up, don't judge each other, give respect to one another and demand it. In the long run, you will be a strong man with self love, self respect, MONEY, and greatful of having done such a move. High-quality woman will easilly be attracted to you from all directions once you complete your journey. She is not that woman yet, and you are not the man you really want to be and you know it.
Be firm and direct with yourself.
GL
2006-10-12 16:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jr Thompson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your first feeling. Usually if there are signs, you will know there is something wrong, and if she gets in an uproar about youasking her then she probably is guilty. Its hard to prove things like this without sound evidence.
2006-10-12 16:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Shera W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude it's either she did have sex or she didn't there's no "i think", talk to her more, see if she's acting weird lately....but since you're not sure and feel like she had did something and she won't say the truth, just dump her and find someone better
2006-10-12 16:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Meow♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask the kid
2006-10-12 16:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by cookiesandcorn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep buggin her about it and then she will leave you and you wont have to worry about it anymore. Or look behind her right ear and see if there is a small bump, if there is then that means she has a bump behind her ear.
2006-10-12 16:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've asked her and she has given you her answer. You either believe her or you don't. This is a trust issue. If you don't trust her now you never will.
2006-10-12 16:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wont give you a straight answer like yes or no instead she says theres no way for you to find out it probably doenst look to good. so if you think she did she probably did
2006-10-12 16:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by krisbohanon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, do you really need confirmation. If you feel this way that right there is a bad sign. Leave her.
2006-10-12 16:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask some of he friends. and try to trust her. u cant have a relationship without trust.
2006-10-12 16:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by kylie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋